So Upset And Worried And Depressed...please Help Posted: 05-03-06 21:20pm
Hi everyone! I am new to the forum, and
as of right now extremely upset. My
boyfriend and I have been having
unprotected sex for almost 4 months now.
Now, me being the net junkie that I am I
went online and researched almost
everything that I could about ovulation
and fertility. My last menstrual period
was april 7th. I charted my fertility
online and said that april 20th through
april 26th were my fertile days. I had
unprotected sex on april 19th, 20th, 21st,
22nd, 23rd, 25th, and 27th. I am waiting
for my next menstrual period on may 7th or
8th, and I just know that I am going to
get it because as always I experience
menstrual cramps a couple of days before
my period, and I am experiencing them now
along with some white discharge, which is
also the norm for me and expecting my
period. I don't understand what I am
doing wrong and I am really upset. Is it
normal to feel menstrual cramps like this
before you period as if you were going to
get it or what. I just want to scream.
Please someone share their experience with
me or at least put my mind at some ease!
:cry:
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labrdogs
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 May 2006 Posts: 15 Location: wisconsin
Posted: 05-03-06 21:34pm
My dear, four months seams like a lifetime
when trying hard, but in reality
infertility isn't something to cross ones
mind until after 12+ months of unprotected
sex. Unless there is a reason that you
feel that you are having troubles? Like
tubal issues, infection, std, age? Even
male infertiltiy.
For us we knew ahead of the game that we
would have some problems considering dh
(husband) had zero count due to a slip of
the knife.
Take it easy and don't push the sex every
day. Give it at least 36 hours to recoop
the count. No lubes as it can kill the
sperm including spit.
Cramps ahead of flo is normal for some, as
is bad pms health forum mode, thats me.
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myLIFE
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 May 2006 Posts: 6
???? Posted: 05-03-06 21:46pm
But is it normal to have back cramps if
possible pregnant?
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labrdogs
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 May 2006 Posts: 15 Location: wisconsin
Posted: 05-03-06 21:49pm
Back cramps can even happen if its a bfn.
Just went through that this last cycle
myself. Only to find out last sunday I
had a bfn.
