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Q: My Husband Doesn't Have a Desire For Sex
asked by: monica9321 on May 3rd, 2006
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My husband used to do a lot of crystal meth. He has been clean for two years. But he says, he just doesn't have the desire for sex any more. I am the opposite, I love sex. I would love to have sex every night with him, if I could. At first I was hurt and angry. We would fight a lot about it. I felt rejected. After talking about it many times, I now understand and I am used to it. We have made love two times in the past year. Trust me I have tried everything in the book to get him aroused, he's just say's that he's really sorry, he just doesn't want to make love. He tells me it's not me. We are very much in love and have been together for ten years. Our relationship is very good in all other departments, except the bedroom. He can get an erection, the desire is just gone. We have heard that meth kills your sex drive, and that it can take up to ten yrs for it to come back. Is this true? Does anyone know?
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sandyallen
replied on May 3rd, 2006
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Have you tried to talk to your dr about this as I aam sssure it bothers him too. I have heard that meth does this along with other drugs but it is not your fault, at least talk to your hubby about cuddling, that helps some. Be thankful he woke up in time and he is off that garbage and is not worse off than he is.
The best to you both!
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monica9321
replied on May 7th, 2006
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No, but I guess we should. Thanks
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mczflymoney
replied on March 29th, 2009
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get him tested!!!
He might be doing drugs again,
Get him tested emediatly!!!!!!!!!!
And tell him to stop!!!!!!!!!
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zigemyster
replied on March 29th, 2009
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Re: get him tested!!!
mczflymoney wrote:
He might be doing drugs again,
Get him tested emediatly!!!!!!!!!!
And tell him to stop!!!!!!!!!


Original post is old...

By the way assuming that he is doing drugs again is not right. You know what happens when one 'assumes'...it makes an 'ass' out of 'u' and 'me' (well not me..me).

No reason to tell someone to stop when there is no backup to prove he is doing anything wrong.

A better approach would be: I believe a simple question of are you using again and if you don't mind (to put my mind at ease) would you take a test to show that you are clean and take it from there.
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