Please help!
I am so confused. I conceived sometime in the beginning of november, and discovered I was pregnant beginning of december. (5 weeks). I had my first doctors appointment three weeks later, which according to her made me 8 weeks. She said everything seemed fine. A week after my appointment, I began spotting. It was very light, brown, and only when I wiped. The doctor was not in, so I simply talked to the nurse. She said this was very normal, as long as I did not have any heavy bleeding or cramping. She said I needed to stay on bedrest until mu next appointment. This was on dec 29th, and my appointment was not until jan 13th. I did was was told, and stopped spotting on jan 4th. Yesterday, I became very anxious, and could not wait till my next appt. To make sure everything was ok. She did a pelvic exam and said everything seemed ok and my cervix was not bleeding. She used a doppler to hear the heart beat, but there was no luck. She said it was because it was still far back. I was not satisfied, so they did an ultrasound. After the doc revieved this she stated the baby was a five week old fetus. And she said the dates don't match, and soundeda little confused, and later siad she is leaning more toward a miscarriage, and wants to do a d&c. She was not definate, and I never had cramping or heavy bleeding. Also, if the baby stopped developing at five weeks, why did I not start spotting until 4 weeks later. I was never even pregnant then, when I went in for my first appt at 8 weeks! Pregnancy tests are still coming back normal, how long will this last? And when do they date it back from? 5 weeks? When the baby stopped developing? I am soo confused, and refuse to have a d&c untill I am certain of what is going on. Should I get a second opionion? Oh, also the nurses story is inconsistant with the doctors, she is saying I don't need a d&c, and my body will just absorb it, but doc is saying if I don't pass tissue in a few days I will need a d&c. Soo confused!!