Lie cheat and steal as they would say. I
swear I can stop crying over this. My
boyfriend left me awhile ago to get help
with his drinking. Tonight I called him
to see how he was. It's been two months,
and we have been talking. He told me he
was great and stopped drinking. I talked
to him earlier today, and he was crying
and said. I said whatever you do don't
drink. He was suppose to come here today
to see my new house. But he said he was
too depressed to. Then later on I called,
and he was so mean to me and drunk. He
told me that he wanted to shoot himself in
the head. Then I decided to call him back
later I talked to his roommate and his
roomy said that he drinks everyday. I am
so sad. I don't know what to do. I am
not ready to let go. I love this guy too
much. Help
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luvkittykats
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2005 Posts: 69 Location: north carolina
Posted: 05-07-06 23:38pm
The only thing I can say is just remember
that there is only so much you can do. I
had an alcoholic boyfriend once too. I
loved him alot. I did my best to be
supportive and tried many time to get him
to quit. No matter what I did he always
went back to drinking. While I knew
quitting was very hard for him I realized
there was only so many things I could do
or say to motivate him. I don't feel bad
about leaving him because I know I did
everything I could to help.
I'm not saying you should give up on him.
Just know when to say enough is enough and
don't let him be abusive to you even if
its just on the phone.
