I moved in with him, from another state
(ny to fl), a little over two weeks ago.
During that time he has had two major
freak outs. The first time he put all of
his belongings in the living room by the
door to move out, the second time he put
all of my belongings in my car, then
begged me to stay, then told me to leave,
so finaly, I went looking for a hotel with
everything I own in my rented car...
Nightmare. I spent the night in a hotel
receiving 10 voice messages and 6 text
messages with everything from don't come
back i'm changing the locks to I love you
and can't live without you, i'm sorry, it
will never happen again.. Blah, blah...
There is part of me that says don't go
back.. But then there's the fact that I
don't have much money, have a rented car..
Just started a new job..And most
importantly i'm 8 weeks pregnant and want
to keep the baby... I don't know what to
do... I'm here because i'm open to any
suggestions. He wants to talk tonight..
I'm figuring maybe I should go back until
the drama - which will happen sometime
next week. By then I should have some
money and a place to move to. Do I go
back to ny? Do I go to my parents? Do
I stay here and move forward?
|
erinjacob
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Apr 2006 Posts: 219 Location: australia
Jess Posted: 05-06-06 01:32am
How did the talk go did you work things
out or do u still need sum advice
|
notafan
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Apr 2006 Posts: 95 Location: pa
Posted: 05-06-06 02:12am
Leave. Get out. Now.
|
heatherv
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 May 2006 Posts: 2 Location: Florida
Better This Week? Posted: 05-07-06 17:52pm
Thanks for the replies.. The talk(s) went
well.. I'm still holding my breath. He
promises this won't happen again.. So, we
will see...
|
Been There
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2006 Posts: 6
Re: Better This Week? Posted: 05-12-06 09:01am
heatherv
wrote:
thanks for the replies..
The talk(s) went well.. I'm still
holding my breath. He promises this
won't happen again.. So, we will
see...
they always do, (promise it won't happen
again), but it always does. This follows
a pattern, both with them....... And with
us.
We either learn to recognize this and
change our own pattern, or live with
theirs. Because you can bet your bottom
dollar, their pattern won't change. Gee,
why would they want to change when it's
always your fault, never theirs?
