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Q: He Flipped Out Again...
asked by: heatherv on May 2nd, 2006
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I moved in with him, from another state (ny to fl), a little over two weeks ago. During that time he has had two major freak outs. The first time he put all of his belongings in the living room by the door to move out, the second time he put all of my belongings in my car, then begged me to stay, then told me to leave, so finaly, I went looking for a hotel with everything I own in my rented car... Nightmare. I spent the night in a hotel receiving 10 voice messages and 6 text messages with everything from don't come back i'm changing the locks to I love you and can't live without you, i'm sorry, it will never happen again.. Blah, blah...
There is part of me that says don't go back.. But then there's the fact that I don't have much money, have a rented car.. Just started a new job..And most importantly i'm 8 weeks pregnant and want to keep the baby... I don't know what to do... I'm here because i'm open to any suggestions. He wants to talk tonight.. I'm figuring maybe I should go back until the drama - which will happen sometime next week. By then I should have some money and a place to move to. Do I go back to ny? Do I go to my parents? Do I stay here and move forward?
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erinjacob
replied on May 6th, 2006
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Jess
How did the talk go did you work things out or do u still need sum advice
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notafan
replied on May 6th, 2006
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Leave. Get out. Now.
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heatherv
replied on May 7th, 2006
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Better This Week?
Thanks for the replies.. The talk(s) went well.. I'm still holding my breath. He promises this won't happen again.. So, we will see...
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Been There
replied on May 12th, 2006
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Re: Better This Week?
heatherv wrote:
thanks for the replies.. The talk(s) went well.. I'm still holding my breath. He promises this won't happen again.. So, we will see...


they always do, (promise it won't happen again), but it always does. This follows a pattern, both with them....... And with us.
We either learn to recognize this and change our own pattern, or live with theirs. Because you can bet your bottom dollar, their pattern won't change. Gee, why would they want to change when it's always your fault, never theirs?

Been there
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