I Think I'm Afraid to Have An Orgasm Posted: 05-01-06 15:06pm
Heya, my name is renee. I've been with my
boyfriend for almost two years, and I love
him very much. The thing is, sometimes
when we're messing around, I fell myself
getting closer and closer to something,
and then I think I force myself to, well,
the best way I can discribe is that I
force myself to kind of not experience the
pleasure or something right before I would
have orgasmed. I mean, i've tried not
doing it. Honestly, I think a part of me
is afraid to have an orgasm. Could
someone help me?
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munky23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2005 Posts: 130
Posted: 05-08-06 17:14pm
Its possible.
I have the same problem.
I get really close and then just can't do
it.
Maybe you afraid to let go and lose
control.
I really don't know what it is.
I love my boyfriend too and can't do it.
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Phen
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jan 2006 Posts: 20 Location: ,
Posted: 05-08-06 17:35pm
You could be holding back because of fear
of something new or experiencing a
different sensation. Also, i've read that
the mind controls 90% of all orgams. So,
if you're thinking too much about what is
going on or perhaps you get easily
distracted and aren't relaxing and letting
your body go with the flow then that could
prevent things from happening. Also, you
may get anxious when you start feeling an
orgasm coming and you may think far too
much about or you're too focused on
achieving it and that could inhibit your
from experiencing it.
Hopefully everything works out for you!
