I hope no one laughs at me though but I would like some help on this, becuase since im still a virgin , I would like to know how and what I must do to make my girl oragasm. She told me shes a good at oragasms, but I dont want to seem like I dont know what im doing, I would like to know if I do get to have sexual intercourse with her, how do I do on abouts making her oragasm, but also without sex too, becuase she told me she uses her fingers , and since im new at this I would like to know if I ever get down there to her, what must I do to make her oragasm.And she told me she really is good at oragasms , I just would like to know my steps on about doing that witout full sex, how to make her oragasm a lot just by using fingers I guess.
The biggest thing im sure any woman would tell you is clitoral stimulation!!! Without this its is almost impossible to achieve orgasm. My boyfriend is the first guy that has been able to give me one. I think the biggest difference between him and all the others that have tried is that he focuses on .M.E at that moment, trying to satisfy me before himself. Don't worry if you don't give her an orgasm the first time, or even the 10th time... It takes time to get to know what she likes, how much she likes it, and where she likes it the most. Don't get discouraged... It'll come... No pun intended. :lol:
Well I mean mygirlfriend had oral sex before with her last bf, she never swallowed his , but she did suck his before stuff came out. Well this what she told me, and also that he made her have multiple oragasms, and see I never even touched a vagina before, my only questions are, if I do get a chance to do something with her and she wants me to make her oragasm without sex , only just by me fingering her vagina, what and how do I do that about?
She can't expect you to know what you're doing the first time... She knows your a virgin, and have no experience right? If not, you should tell her because otherwise if she thinks your going to be this great experienced guy shes going to get the disappointment of her life when you aren't up to the standards she set for you. As for telling you how to "finger" her... I can't answer that... You are going to have to fool around with her a bit and figure out what she likes... All women like something different... I would just give you advice on what I like, but that doesn't mean she'd like it too. Just ask her what she likes.. And experiement from there.
I mean you right , but its just that idk I guess I kind of feel jelous a little because I wished maybe I would of been her first that way we both dident know what we was doing lol, but I would like to be the one that can top what she experienced before, I dont want to go and then do an awful job and then make her think about how she had a better time with the other guy
One more thing too I forgot to add, she never told me the size of the other dude, but still I mean I am confident of my size, all I want is for her to think im the best for her, and if he was better at using tongue and fingering her than I was , and lets just say his size was bigger too, then I have no chance , I just hope im good at sumthing
Sex shouldn't be about comparing from one person to another... If thats what shes going to do then you're having sex for the wrong reasons. Sex should be with 2 people who love each other.. Not just to see what you have, or don't have compared to the last person. What it all comes down to mostly is don't stress yourself out about it. The more you stress, the more pressure you're going to put on yourself, and the more likely you are going to screw up and not be good at what you do. Just get your girl to tell you what she likes, and try it... She can give you directions/instructions from there until you are a master at giving orgasms!!! Lol hey--everyones gotta start somewhere!
STOP POSTING UNUSEFUL INFO! JUST TELL US WHAT YOU GIRLS LIKE! NO ONE CARES IF EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT! HAVE YOU EVER TAKEN THE THOUGHT THAT GUYS MIGHT HAVE ALREADY TRIED EVERYTHING THAT THEY CAN THINK OF?! POST SOMETHING USEFUL! FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! WHAT MAKES "YOU" WOMEN ORGASM?!
You know Marblov ... I think you just answered your own question in a way. 1) It's not about YOU and what YOU have or have not tried - and 2) Why don't you just try being a little more confidant - NOT COCKY. I'd say 40% of sex is getting her turned on and 60% is getting her mind turned on to you...remember, women love a man who can sweep her off her feet by thinking in advance what hes going to do to her, and then taking his time doing it!
i think the first person dint want to get in to too much detail.. just incase its not allowed. anyway she did make a point, we dont all like the same thing! but hey this question is several years old. but anyway if each girl posted somethieng that makes us orgasm, guys would probably get an idea, or help!!!
so in my case, yes, the brain has ALOT to do with it. a woman's orgasm comes from what she is thinking as well as feeling.
i like it rough. maybe a bit of hair pulling not hard, and a bit of spanking ALSO NOT HARD.
i like a man that says something, whether he moans in pleasure, or he talks to me dirty.
if hes giving me oral fingering me helps. movements form side to side on the clit hood are great as well as top to bottom. i personally my cldit is sensitive and if the licking is too hard it hurts and it kills it so patience is key!
and of course if hes aroused its amazing seeing his face expressions are my debility. if im on top i get to massage my clit with his pelvis which feels totally yummy and get me an orgasm for sure and i know my guy likes it.
and sometimes if i cant quite finish he will tell me right as hes about to come and just from imagining his orgasm i get mine! so hope some of this helps! and if you guys want to add something go right ahead!
Sometimes the best thing to do is what feels right for you and her. There is not right or wrong way to it. Exploring each others body, and learning what each other likes is half the fun the rest will all cum together.