I had a placental abruption they think due to some kind of strain. Dil was ten weeks early and was "small for dates." he died on the 11th march due to a condition called .Necrotizing .Enterocolitis. The doctors tried to operate on him to save him but he was too weak.
He also had a severe intracranial bleed (brain) which caused damage resulting in (they think) blindness. It was a rough ride.
Also exitroad, thank you but I can make my own decisions about when I will get pregnant and be a mother.