Hi, my name is renee and I need some advice. My boyfriend and I just got back together after two years of not talking (not by choice, we just couldn't find each other's numbers). I am truly madly in love with him. That's why, when a few weeks ago, he told me that he doesn't enjoy sex, it hurt so much. He is a recovering drug addict (was on everything you can think of), and of course, he did the unbelieveable; he had sex on ecstasy. I want to know if anyone else has ever dated someone who had sex on x and if there's any possibility at all that he could ever enjoy sex with me. I love him, and I think I could live without the sex; that's why it would be nice to know if there's any possibility that he'll enjoy it again, to prepare myself. I also want to know if there's anything I could maybe try to do or anything he could do.
Well, after you have sex on ecstasy, because of the way it enhances sensuality and pleasure through stimulation, regular sex usually can't compare. For instance, if you had an orgasm while on ecstasy (very uncommon, by the way), any other orgasm you had from then on would have about 1/100 of the feeling of that single orgasm. That's why a lot of people don't enjoy sex after sex on ecstasy.