I looked up genital herpes for you in my nursing book, it says: once infected you can harbor the virus without symptoms for months or even years before an outbreak. You may first have itchy, painful, or tender skin in your genital area and swollen lymph glands. Some people also feel ill and have a headache or fever. Painful red blisters filled with a clear fluid burst, ooze, and crust over. The blisters can appear on any part of the vagina, or vulva as well as the inner thighs, buttocks, or anus. So from the sounds of things it sounds more like a ingrown hair to me, from shaving rather than herpes. I know I have had ingrown hairs before and they are awful, and painful. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you!!

Hold on, can a girl get herpes by having oral sex too? Or even if a guy eats her out??

If that person has had a cold sore---yes. Cold sores are .H.I.G.H.L.Y contagious, even if one isn't visible at the time. They are otherwise known as herpes of the mouth. So therefore if the virus gets transmitted down below it is then known as genital herpes... Because it is the same virus, and has no cure.

that's how I got herpes - my boyfriend was eating me out and had a cold sore

luckily, though, i've only had one breakout, which is how I found out I had it

Dang yo, I gotta go see if my girlfriend has herpes now, but other than herpes, are there other diseases like that , that a woman or man can get just from oral?

I need hep I have a red bump in my private area help me plz