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Q: Depressed!!!!!!!! =(
asked by: mickeymouse911 on April 28th, 2006
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I am very depressed right now!!! My future husband well fiance is now trying to leave me, I have been with him for a little over 3years now!!! I love him to death and I dont want to loose him!!! Ever since we got together like a little over being to gether for 6 months thats when he started to accuse me of cheating!!! And I would actually go through depressions over him sometimes!!!! Like crying myself to sleep, not eating, eating to much, smoking up to 3 packs of ciggaretes a day, and cutting, and plenty other stuff too!!!!! I love him to death and dont want to loose him, I have even planned my future just in order that we could be together and make him happy!!!! Like he hates ohio, were we currently live, and he wants to move back to flordia, so I found a college there just so that I could make him happy!!!! But now hes saying that were not going to make it, when hes the one who calls me and accuses me of cheating constantly and says that im ho* and all kinds of stuff!!!! Im not trying to make him sound like hes abusive or anything, but he is mentally abusive, and right now I feel like im going to have a heart attack!!! I smoke too much, and I dont have no friends dont go anywhere or anything like that!!!! I have stayed with him for so long and I dont want to loose him and I know that if hed just try he could change!!! I have tried and tried to help him, but he has just seemed to be getting worse!!!! But what im basically saying is that I need some kind of advice or support!!! And also he has a lot of problems like for example: anxiety, ocd, panic attacks, hypochondriac, and plenty more, but do you think this might be why, and do you think he will really leave me? :cry:
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esmass
replied on May 2nd, 2006
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I really think that you should think on yourself. Your fiance is probably saying these things because maybe he is afraid of commitment or because he probably has been cheating himself. Your reacting on based on your depression and this is a very bad thing. Reevaluate your situation - what has your fiance done for you. Has he supported your expections and requests? Or have you been the only one making the changes. I hate to admit it - but if your the only making the changes to make him happy then it is really not a good healthy relationship to be in. Marriage should be shared on an equal level. From what you have described this relationship is really not healthy physically nor mentally for you.
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