Well sweetie,
unfortunatly, sometimes guys never grow outta this. But in some cases, yes, reality sets in but it may take until he actully holds his child the 1st time for him to know hey wake up, i'm a daddy now. That is the problem with young guys concieveing children. While the mother has basically no choice but to care, the guy can just play play play.
Hope it gets better.
Love,
chanda

Hey!
I am 24 and my man is 25. We have a 3 year old daughter. He is still out clubbin, hanging with the boys, playing video games and getting high. It is so freakin pathetic! I get so frusterated! Not all men are alike so yours might change. I know in my heart I am not meant to spend the rest of my life with her daddy. I love him like no tomorrow also, but I will never accomplish my dreams for her and I sticking around waiting for him. He is really great with her when he does stay home or anything with her, but as far as being in a serious mode about it all the time....Yeah right! Keep your head up and hope he changes. Maybe when the baby gets here reality will hit. Maybe!??? Best wishes!

Hunni, some guys never grow up. The father of my twins and I were engaged and on our wedding day he called me from cuba with another girl....See some guys never grow up now I talked to him a couple weeks after it happened and I havent heard from him since, and I probably wont. Boys will be boys and you just learn to live with it and accept it. He does not have to give up his entire life for this although he should be supporting you, but you dont have to give up your life either!
Good luck
melissa chastity and joshua

Yes hun! Evenly it will! My fiance I think that it did it when the twins were born! But it will take time! But us on the other hand it changes as soon as we find out that we are having a baby!

My counselor at school said that theres a reason why woman carry their babies for 9 1/2 months not only for the baby to grow but for the guy to come to the realization that they are going to be daddies he siad that of course they see there girldfriends or wifes getting bigger but it just really never kicks in until like a month before he said it didnt hit him until she was a week be4 her due date.....See I told raven to go out have fun with the boys go dancing and that b/c he loves to dance thats how hes gets rid of his stress and he knows he wont be able to do that once river is born and hes okay with that ... Thats why hes living it up now and I dont have a problem one b/c I hardly see him anyways!!Lol! But I love him to pieces!!! Well hang in there sweetie I hope for yours and the babies sake that he comes around just give it some time or try talking to him! Anything u do we will support ya! Muhc love and god bless!!!

Jen & river

Once again, he was sick and didnt go to school.Yah, danny, youre a winner! Lol im less stressed now though thank god for you girls, you are good at calmin me down. Your replys were very encouraging and I jus gota member to keep mah head up..

thanks again

love,mol