Hi markish...
Is there any way you can ask your parents to make an appointment with a tmj specialist (dentist, orthodontist, oral surgeon)? You really need to be evaluated by a tmj trained medical personnel and that is usually a dentist. To find a dentist in your area that specializes in this field, research over the internet at such sites as aaop.Com, tmj.Org, aacfp.Com or lists on tmj support sites. Also, ask your own personal dentist. But make sure that you go to someone who has really studied tmj and most of his/her practice is working with tmj.
It is far too soon to even talk about surgery or braces. Motrin, moist heat and ice, physical or massage therapy, yoga, eating only soft foods are the first things you can do on your own. The tmj guy/gal will probably have you try bite splints to help ease pressure on the tmj. If you don't like the first one, don't give up and know that you will need to have the splint adjusted many times until it fits you properly and is comfortable.
You may or may not have a long road ahead of you depending on how these first conservative and reversible steps take you. Do not allow anyone to make lots of changes to your bite that can't be undone at this stage (filing several teeth). Filing one or two points on your teeth is okay and may actually fix the problem. But do be careful. Even though you are a minor, be assertive if you have to be.
Do lots of research, research, and research, and be educated when you see and talk to anyone about tmj. Always prepare questions ahead of time and have them written down.
I hope this helps get you started. Remember, moist heat is wonderful particularly right at bedtime, motrin for pain, and massage therapy from someone that frequently works in myofacial release of the head if the pain is too much to handle, and please, please see a tmj specialist, soon if not now. Again, if you or your parents don't like the first one you visit, go to another one. Don't give up.
Let us all know how you are doing. Feel free to ask me questions. These health forums/boards are wonderful for support from other tmjers.
God bless...
Carol