Well if that is the case you need to tell someone preferably your mom.

Ignoring it will not make it go away. You will need medical care whether you decide to keep the baby or not.

Your mom will likely be mad to begin with and this is normal - she is going to be shocked that her baby is pregnant but 99% of all moms come round and are fantastic.

But please please do not ignore this.

Not to be the bad news reporter but sweetie dont get your hopes up about your boyfriend staying with you. Please dont use him being there or not confuse your judgement on anything. This is about you right now. First off I would take another test see what it says and if it is posotive then you need to tell your mom or dad or gaurdian and get to a doctor as soon as possible. Alot of teenage girls dont keep in mind that just because they are healthy means that their baby is fine. Your young your labor is high risk reguardless how healthy you think you are. Im 17 and was 16 when I found out I was pregnant. I actually planned my baby with my boyfriend. He was my first love the only guy I had ever been sexual with and we even were engaged and had our own place. I learned the hard way that you cant make a guy stay with you with a baby. I know how hard it is dealing with pregnancy at a young age. I had alot of support and still was terrifyed and thought about so much crap that really didn't even involve the baby. I think you need to take another test tho and let your mom know whats going on because trust me she will be happier that you trusted her enough to not hate you and tell her and it would hurt her to know that you kept it from her. I really hope you do the right thing.

Are you still with the daddy buddah?



Aaah I forgot ur name :( sorry lol

Hehehe my names jenna... Or jen.

In a way you can say we are together but in a way we arent. He is living in chicago right now and im in texas. He plans on being here for when the baby is born and wants us to be a family but it wasnt always like that. He went threw the phase that the baby wasnt his and everything. Im still confused on our whole situation. I love him to death but I have my son to worry about now.

Aww you're going to be a good mommy, im glad you're putting your son before a man thats a really good choice. I hope everything works out for you guys :)

Aw me 2:) ys he in chicago?

Thanx you guys... We are originally from new orleans... And we both moved to texas after katrina but then we got into a big fight and split up. Thats was the first time he tryed saying that the baby wasnt his but his a$$ knew better so he started feeling bad and wanted to try and work things out so he moved to chicago with some friends to ge his life together in a place where he didnt know anyone and couldn't get into any trouble because the part of new orleans we are from we have lived there pretty much our whole lives and everyone knows us and he was a problem child and teen lol when we were staying out there getting into a lot of trouble. So he thought if he went to a place where no one knew him he wouldn't get into to much trouble. I can't keep waiting for him so I have given up on him trying to push him to do good with his self so hopefully it will all work out and he will do better for himself and be a good father to both of his kids.

You really need to tell your mom or somebody related so they can help you! You cant do it alone! Youll be surprised your mom might be on your side.

it's really sad you tell her not to depend on the boyfriend staying with her, i'm not sure what type of guys you've been with but not all men are like that, and it's not cool, on my behalf you telling her dont depend on him staying..

If my baby's dad knew I was pregnant he would of stayed, you don't know her, or her boyfriend so please...Pretty please dont tell especially young girls that just because you're guy left you.

Kthanx

i'm going to be honest with you babe..

Being pregnant is awfully hard, you get stared at, you'll get called names. You're parents will most likely be dissapointed, but I promise you it'll only last a little while! You're parents & you're boyfriends will warm up to the fact that you're pregnant, and will seriously surprise you.

A baby has a lot of needs, if you're not sure you can meet his/her needs then you should consider adoption. Having a baby is a wonderful gift someone would ever have, it's you're baby & you're body. Don't make a decision to make everyone happy, but only yourself!

Aww d that was so motherly, I loved it.

I know, what the hell is bray doing to me?

I didnt say oh he is going to run off and leave her... But she is young.. I said for her not to make plans around that because she needs to worry about finding out if she is pregnant and taking care of her baby and herself. Im not saying all men are evil ...Lol I know they arent and im not that simple minded to think that way and I find it kinda rude to throw it in my face that my boyfriend left me. ( ps. We are together today ). I just know how it is to stress over things that arent that important. At 13 when I first got with my boyfriend I always stressed on things he would do and I wasnt even pregnant or even possibly pregnant cause I was still a virgin...But no I didnt mean to put her boyfriend down I just really dont think she should stress over him right now and worry about her and that babys health if she is pregnant.

I didn't mean to be rude, but I understand where you're coming from.

=)

Glad to get my point acoss and not come off like an evil witch who hates all men...Lol...
Oh and its ok no harm !!