Sex is fun and special. I want to do everything for my man, but why, when we aren't together, I hate my body. I hate when he starts to touch around there, I hate all those flaps of skin down there. I wish it didn't exist. I hate it. And then, when we're together, its fine and we can have sex which is so wonderful. Am I giving too much of myself to him and just in total submission of him? Or do I really love him?