Before I had sex, I was diligent in the
fact that i'd always use a condom no
matter what. Good plan, a lot less
worries of catching or conceiving
anything.
Well the day final came around when I lost
my virginity. Used a condom of course.
Now I had sex with this girl a lot but I
kept finding myself losing my erection
before or during sex. (note: I was
extremely attracted to her) I really just
couldn't keep it hard to save my life. At
first I blamed it on performance anxiety.
Cause I did have some being new at it and
all but the fact is I was very comfortable
with her and she wasn't complaining even
though it was usual me flaccid soon after
we got started. Now, sometimes i'd be
able to go a good hour or so but it would
always end with me losing my erection. I
never really climaxed or got close during
sex. Now when I was receiving oral, i'd
stay hard no problem at all and I thought
it felt 10 times better then sex ever did.
I suppose I should point out I never
climaxed during that either.
Anyways, one time things were getting
heated up and I didn't have a condom but
we decided to try it condomless. I
actually was a bit curious as to how
different it might be without one. It was
great, insanely better then all times
before. Stayed hard without effortlessly.
So I figured the condom just like dulled
my senses way to much for me to enjoy it
at all.
After me and that girl went our separate
ways, I met this other girl and we had sex
without a condom. Again, insanely great.
Actually didn't wear a condom any time I
had sex with her. Climaxed for the first
time with her too, almost everytime damn
near. Though things happened as they do
and we went are separate ways as well.
Then finally I met this last girl that i'm
seeing now and when things got hot and
heavy with her she pulled out a condom.
I'm the type to respect such wishes,
figuring I could easily stay hard now.
Surfice it to say that about 1 minute into
it I was completely soft. And I should
add this person was really hot, body-wise
and all. Really fit and well formed. So
it wasn't lack of looks that got me soft
or anything like that. I really wanted to
have sex with her and not be completely
embrassed about it too. Oddly and luckily
enough, I had just recently bought ultra
thin condoms... Which I would never think
of spending money on concidering I hate
condoms and I don't have sex much at all.
So I fight for a long while to get hard
again and when I finially do, I put my
condom on and start having sex with her.
It lasted about 15 minutes before I went
soft... Again. The worst part is, I
swear I couldn't feel anything. Other
then the fact of looking at a really hot
naked girl while getting some exercise, it
felt really pointless and I felt bad for
not being about not being able to please
her.
Just makes me livid that I can't have sex
with a condom. It's like I have very weak
nerves or something, not as sensitive down
there. Without a condom, i'm able to stay
hard for hours on end. With one, they're
lucky if they get 5 minutes out of me.
Any suggestions? I prefer to remain on
the safe side of sex and my new girlfriend
obviously agrees. I want to please her
and I want to enjoy it too but it seems
nearly impossible with condoms. I really
just want to know my options here. So any
advice or help would be apprecaited.
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wantabavj2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2006 Posts: 12
Posted: 04-24-06 10:16am
Pretty much the same problem here. I got
these "pleasure plus" condoms so hopefully
they will improve the feeling, but i'm not
sure. I, too, thoroughly enjoyed sex
without a condom, and I could still last a
long time. She actually came 3 times
before we pulled out and I came from her
giving me head. In any case, i'd like to
hear any advice on this as well.
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spooled2k3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Feb 2006 Posts: 49 Location: chicago
Posted: 05-06-06 20:11pm
You are not using the climax control
condoms are you? I have sued those in
teh past, and I would get the same thing.
But now I can go with a condom, I just
like condomless less.. If I use a condom
from the get go.. I need to be really
excited before we "indulge"
