Ok this girl's post was tagged onto an old old post dreged up from page 9 zillion or somewhere.
It got split so the old post could happily reside in the past.
Her comment is here opinion and if she wouldn't give her baby up that is fine.
I absolutely wouldn't give a baby up either - even if I couldn't keep it - selfish? Maybe but every one is entitled to their opinion.
Mine is probably releated to my ocd but I know a lot of people that couldn't give a baby up for adoption, same as I know a lot of people who could and I have some very good friends who were adopted and say it was the best thing in their life.
People shouldn't be slated for their opinion, if they are factually wrong and you can show them that thats a different story.
But someones opinion on whether or not to adopt isn't grounds for such a bashing.