Ladies,
i have been married for 15 years and we dated for 9 before we committed. Thats 24 years! It's been worth it!
Listen you don't want to rush into marriage.. The best choice that I made was, we were friends for 1 year before it ever went any where sexual.. He became my best friend, we had serious fun together and we challenged each other.. He accepted me when is was in an "ugly " mood and when I was stunninly beautiful.. Thru the years we have had years of tough times, but if the friendship is there, you will make it thru.
Relationship is about give and take and communication and that you have to feel comfortable with a person.. If you don't have that, then thats it folks, you will never last.
Find a man that you can relate to, have fun with, who is respectful and treats you like you want to be treated. Any thing less and you will regret it in the future.
We have had a few rules: if you fall out of love, don't cheat, just tell me.
It may hurt, but its better than getting a disease .
We always have our nights together and family nites, as well as girls and guys nites out.. You have to be who you are! Don't try and be some one your not for someone else, don't starve your self, do plastic surgery.
Because any man that is that fickle now will be a horror to live with in the future and you only get older..
I wish you all the best and keep your head high, attain your goals and wait for mister right, he will come along when you least expect it and it will be who you least expect.. :) all the best, and happy hunting.. Remember no one is perfect, desire doesn't always happen the moment you meet.. Chao bella ww