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jaime_elms

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Did Any1 Have Aborion At 14 Week -19weeks
Posted: 04-22-06 06:10am

Sorry jus im 14weeks my abortion on thursday 27th april. And I jus wanted know that I aint alone, on the other part of forum, some1 started a topic, and I answerd question and they all turned on me,. Saying im bad person, I already feel bad ya know:( and jus so awfull.
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Posted: 04-22-06 14:56pm

Yes, go to

http://www.Livejournal.Com

hit abortioninfo....

Register so you can see posts.. Noone prolife or anti abortion can post there , and many women on there have thier stories of 14-19 weeks abortion.. One girl on their had a 19 weeks abortion, and tells her story.. Non judgemental and honest....

It is called live journal, and aboritoninfo is a journal in the community

you do not have to register, but if you do you can see the posts from women who only want other registered members to see.....

I post there!
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Posted: 04-22-06 14:57pm

When you click the link you will see a search "blank"

enter "abortioninfo" without a space
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Posted: 04-22-06 14:58pm

Thanx so much xxxx
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Posted: 04-22-06 18:43pm

Don't let those people get to you. You just do what is right for you. I see where they locked that one post. Even they hadd no right calling you those names, remember the ole saying, sticks and stones. Just stay on this side as we are here for you for whatever decision you make!
The very best to you!
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Posted: 04-23-06 04:33am

Yeah!! I jus do feel bad about what im going to do :( as the times gettin later! N im teriffied been put to sleep n teriffied that im gnna kill my baby!
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Posted: 04-23-06 19:18pm

jaime_elms wrote:
yeah!! I jus do feel bad about what im going to do :( as the times gettin later! N im teriffied been put to sleep n teriffied that im gnna kill my baby!


well, it is going to die; but that is the nature of abortion. However, since you know that this is what's going to happen, there is no need to worry about it or stress about it. As for the anesthesia, most people do just fine, so nothing to worry about there either. You'll be fine! And you can feel relieved afterwards. Please please let us know how you're doing!
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Posted: 04-24-06 04:34am

I will. Only 4days - I am scared but, cant help it :( I jus feel alone in this pregnancy, its all been stressful. It isnt babies fault. My bf working all the time. He hasnt even asked if im sure I wanna do it, of how I am, he is gonna come with me. Which is nice.
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Posted: 04-24-06 18:31pm

I was wide awake with mine 31 hours of labor until they decided to abort it as they knew it would not make it and I was awake during the abortion. I have had 23 surgeries and am probably looking at about 3 more due to pain, be thankful, you will be asleep, hope you have an early appointment and ask for a relaxer. Don't forget, you will need a ride home.
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Posted: 04-25-06 04:15am

Thanx so much, im really really sorry about what u have been through, thats awfull. So ur baby was ready to be born, bt u were in labour for along time??? Thats so upsetting! :( im sorry about that, thank you for all ur support!!
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Posted: 04-25-06 16:20pm

No, to me it was not a baby, it was not in the birth canal and the dr did not say any time on birth date so therefore I do not feel it was a baby, it was in the process of miscarrying(sp) or preparing to die after what it had gone through, we all knew (including the drs) it could not go through anymore, kind of like the other one that had the iud in the head that was in the process of passing on that also would have never made it but they have improved on iud's since then and it was a rare case at that time too. The one fetus that died while I was on b/c and a spermicide condom might have been a abortion also but it ended up as a miscarriage, things happen in life that we sometimes have no control over I was taught that you make your bed, you lay in it but after a while you learn that if those sheets get dirty, you have to change them along with the box springs and the rest of the bed and at that time we did not have places to go like they have now your life sometimes needs a new change, just like your bed and bedding and that is what I did a few times and now I have a great hubby, jobs where I can help people, great son and daughter, looking back I have no regrets, just experiences, great parents, yucky step-mother but what can we expect from someone that is full of hate and alchohol(sp).
We sometimes must do what we must do and then move on. I realize that moving on is difficult sometimes. Have you ever checked into .E.M.D.R. It is done by finger movement or knee taping, it is done by psychologists not psychyatrists so you do not have to worry about a bunch of meds, I do not have anything against psychiatrists but psychologists have have done a lot of work on post war victims, people with phobias, people that have problems int the past such as robbings shootings seeing someone die as sexually molested child ao an abused one or an abortion, it iss similar to a helium baloon being released, it takes you to the time and you fogive yourself, you might check it out sometimes it only takes about 2 to 4 sessions
the best to you whatever you decide, I am here for you!!
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Posted: 04-25-06 16:40pm

It sounds like it is time to sit down and have a heart-to heart talk with your beau, see if he wants you to move on. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, don't let any man take that away from you!
You are .Woman hear you roar!(lol).
I do o kay, just one day at a time, work helps! But they will sooner or later have to do something about this pain either by a stimulator or a pain pump or both with my medical situations sleep can be hell or I will have to end up on disability on more meds and I do not want that, not with my jobs.
Are you working? Going to school?
Wishing you the best!
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Posted: 04-26-06 04:15am

I work mon-fri and also go to college, im applying for uni, my bf wants me live with him, and get house, but not sure yet, we have see how it all goes,
sandyallen wrote:
it sounds like it is time to sit down and have a heart-to heart talk with your beau, see if he wants you to move on. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, don't let any man take that away from you!

You are .Woman hear you roar!(lol).

I do o kay, just one day at a time, work helps! But they will sooner or later have to do something about this pain either by a stimulator or a pain pump or both with my medical situations sleep can be hell or I will have to end up on disability on more meds and I do not want that, not with my jobs.

Are you working? Going to school?

Wishing you the best!
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