I asked for orgasm advice a few months ago (because I had never had one at all) and got some great advice and responses. I have tried them all and things are definitely improving. But as stupid as this sounds, now i'm wondering if what i'm feeling is an orgasm or not. Maybe i'm expecting too much....I get the shaky feeling in the stomach/vaginal area....It almost feels like contractions but not very strong...But it doesn't seem like there is an actual climax, like the end is missing or something! For those of you who missed my original post, I had a problem where I sort of "plateau" and can't get any farther. Now i'm farther, but i'm not sure if this is it. I don't ever feel super relaxed or tired afterward....And I still am constantly wanting sex...Which makes me think i'm still not there, because if you're getting satisfied, the libido should calm down, right?