I asked for orgasm advice a few months ago
(because I had never had one at all) and
got some great advice and responses. I
have tried them all and things are
definitely improving. But as stupid as
this sounds, now i'm wondering if what i'm
feeling is an orgasm or not. Maybe i'm
expecting too much....I get the shaky
feeling in the stomach/vaginal area....It
almost feels like contractions but not
very strong...But it doesn't seem like
there is an actual climax, like the end is
missing or something! For those of you
who missed my original post, I had a
problem where I sort of "plateau" and
can't get any farther. Now i'm farther,
but i'm not sure if this is it. I don't
ever feel super relaxed or tired
afterward....And I still am constantly
wanting sex...Which makes me think i'm
still not there, because if you're getting
satisfied, the libido should calm down,
right?
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fos20044
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2006 Posts: 1 Location: ireland
Re: Orgasm....did I Do It? Posted: 04-21-06 09:16am
dddd3333
wrote:
i asked for orgasm advice a
few months ago (because I had never had
one at all) and got some great advice and
responses. I have tried them all and
things are definitely improving. But as
stupid as this sounds, now i'm wondering
if what i'm feeling is an orgasm or not.
Maybe i'm expecting too much....I get the
shaky feeling in the stomach/vaginal
area....It almost feels like contractions
but not very strong...But it doesn't seem
like there is an actual climax, like the
end is missing or something! For those
of you who missed my original post, I had
a problem where I sort of "plateau" and
can't get any farther. Now i'm farther,
but i'm not sure if this is it. I don't
ever feel super relaxed or tired
afterward....And I still am constantly
wanting sex...Which makes me think i'm
still not there, because if you're getting
satisfied, the libido should calm down,
right?
well it sounds to me that you are looking
for attention from, everyone.In fairness
if you had an orgasam you'd know
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erogers33
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2006 Posts: 141 Location: Littleton, CO
Posted: 04-21-06 10:22am
If you had an orgasm, you wouldn't have to
ask. You would know for sure.
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kenashra
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2005 Posts: 62 Location: LA
Posted: 04-22-06 15:05pm
To explain it to you because the responses
you received were...Well kind of bland and
it seems they dont know what an orgasm is
either. When you have reached your
climax, your genital area will pulsate and
throb and the feeling really is
indescribable. It is beautiful. Try
masturbation while having sex.
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fiona05
Supporter
Joined: 21 Dec 2005 Posts: 663 Location: , Norn Iron
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Posted: 04-23-06 19:04pm
Yeah if you'd climaxed you'd be able to
feel pulsating. You really would know if
you'd orgasmed though! I'd go with the
advice of touching yourself while having
sex, cos that would ensure the clitoris is
gettin stimulated.
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mongirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 93 Location: Michigan
Posted: 04-23-06 22:33pm
Also if you really had the big o you would
physically feel it not only when its
happening but after too. For me my legs
shake and I cannot help but scream because
of it. Sometimes my hands even go numb
but everyone is different. Try different
positions and lifting your butt off of the
bed if your on the bottom. That may help.
