How old is your bf?

That's how I was during the first two years with my bf, the only reason it was just the first two years was, because he kept turning me down so much. I'd get so irritated over it that I "died inside", as I put it, and just got used to not getting any.
He was 20 when we started dating and in the last year (he's 24) his sex drive has gone through the roof. I'm not sure if it was, because I made myself less available, or because he was just a late bloomer in the sex drive area.
My best friend has been reading a book called "men are from mars, women are from venus : in the bed room" and they tell you how to make your bf more interested in sex without him knowing that you're the reason. She's tested it on her bf and she says the methods work great.

So maybe that book could help you?


Good luck!

Christa

Hey

yeah hes 24, im 21. Dont get me wrong, he loves it - I just absolutely love it!! Seriously, I dont think its healthy how much I think about shagging. As soon as something gets my mind on it I cant stop thinking about it...

I'm with you krit, can't get enough...However it does kind of rule your life...Literally ran off the road when my beau came to "surprise" me at work(professional driver). Just make sure it's not an emotional or dependency-type thing, as we women sometimes attempt to put our entire lifes on the guy and this tends to push them away.
And here's a warning to sex addicts...You think your bad in your 20s.....Wait till you hit the 40s....I'm a walking talking cliche...You know what they say about 40 year old divorcees, ouch...It's true...Day off so, currently waiting for beau to call...Want to make his eyes roll to the back of his head :lol: happy friday everyone!

Yeah I think I may put a lot of my life on my guy. I hate doing things without him, but he is happy for me to go out with my friends whenever I want. I just love being with him, and I dont have fun when hes not there.

As for sex, I do fantasize about other guys - especially jensen ackles from supernatural !! Phwoar he is seeexxxyy!! Is this bad if I am with someone?? That usually gets my sexual appetite racing...

Ive been with my girlfriend for almost 3 months now and the first 2 to 3 weeks wed stay up all night having sex over and over again. Lately however, its more like she falls asleep on the couch and then we go to bed and she basically just goes to sleep and apologizes that shes so tired and that shes sorry. Then in the morning before work we have a quick one and then get in the shower. Its kinda lame. Im not saying that happens all the time but during the week its been happening more and more.

I dont want her to think im just using her for sex. Last night she was all chipper and then suddenly we went to bed and she just passed out. I was like, uh I thought we were gonna hang out for a bit and she got all nasty with me.

Any advice here? Its starting to seem almost as if the only times we hook up or have sex is when she initiates it. For example, sometimes shell get all crazy and turned on and grab my penis through my pants in public and stuff like that when I cant do anything about it, but then when we get somewhere we can actually do something its like shes not interested.

Hello

it sounds like she is bored with the "usual".

She loves the thought of getting caught... Does this sound right?

If you want to spice things up a bit maybe take her for a romp outdoors? My boyfriend and I got to that stage where we were just shagging on the bed and that was it. Not even in the lounge room or anything. We both must have been up for it one night - at my cousins wedding we went just around the corner from where everyone was standing and he had me up against the wall. It was so exciting!!

From then on we were into naughty stuff... At his parents house in the spare bedroom with the door wide open, on the balcony of a hotel in broad daylight...

Im not saying there necessarily has to be people around when you go at it, maybe start with just sex out the front of your house or whatever? Think u can do it??

Krit xx

hi krittyk i'm boy 26 I hav same problem pleaseeee dont get me wrong I always think of sex I dont no why even now I think of it while reading I can keep sex out of mind for little tim. I get exited soon & my gf does the same as ur boy friend wot I think sex should be as often as one could aford without restriction play everything in sex. I'm crazy but some how I feel I should b doing it very frequent twice a day every day sorry but its true I wanted to share it. Any how I want to control it but I cant and I never touched any other girl then girl freind. I dont lik masterbate but still most of tim I resort to this. I'm curious how to increase sex drive in my gf. I want girl should b wanting of me & I should be wanting of her then v can enjoy max. I think v can share more of things about it if u dont mind becas I say every thing open and if u mind sorry but I wanna share with u more may b through ur e mail chat up to u...

Hello

yes its not unusual for males to have the same problem as me, because its a known fact that men love sex (most of them). But why does it happen to me if im female?

hi listen if u love sex more I love it even more its not that every male love sex very much. Males have always casual attitude in this. But I want sex more often I want a girl who love sex more then me may b i'm looking a girl like u interested in sex may be u & me can help each other why not i'm a male & u female so why cant v both be through and fullfill our desires why to think if luck has given us a chance please dont mind I told u i'm so open, broad minded if u dont like my proposal me sorry no problems but I think v can discuss and enjoy each other I was waiting for ur replay babe u know I want u be my friend now up to u once again openly sorry if u mind. If u trust me contact me through personal mesg if so i'll love to hav u with me

gee whiz asher......I thought you loved your girlfriend so much! Watch out krittyk it's probably a 45 year old guy still living with his parents, :lol:

me 26 swear yeah I loved my gf but I also told openly she does not ful fill my desires spirit dont think like that I want a girl who can be of my taste becas sex is important its every day requirment or every alternate I said lik kritty bf my gf doesn't like sex much though she enjoys but she does not has urge its two way traffic u know if v hav got a chanc then why spirit u dont want us to be enjoying I said me open broad minded and i'm 26 and sexually very strong I said I never touched other girl . My gf says u should hav a girl who fulfill my desires and she loves me too. But she wants me happy. But I till now did not go to another girl becas me straitfarward in dealings. I want to know kritty opinoion spirit please it hurt me becas I told u me say open nothing hidden even u can check I hav so many mails on ehealthforum no contradiction. Beleive it or not its fact I want kritty

Hello asher

im sorry but I think your proposal is a bit crazy... Maybe you should log on to an online dating service? I just needed advice regarding my larger than life sexual appetite... I am completely in love with my boyfriend and want to spend the rest of my life with him. Stay faithful to your gf - strange as it sounds coming from me, but sex is not the most important thing in a relationship. Love is the most wonderful emotion you can experience, and I am so grateful to have a wonderful man that loves me as much as I love him. I just dont understand my own libido...

hi kritty for me love matter more but wot u said in last sentence is same problem with me "i just dont understand my own libido" I dont know why I cant keep sex out of my mind. I'm still with my girl friend I did not leave her becas I sacrifice sex over love. Wot I ask u just u on & off come & discuss with me chat with me be my friend to discuss these matter i'm honest . I appriciate ur lov for ur bf good. It speaks high of u that u r sincere to ur bf . I hope u understand me com on add me & chat u r free to do anything do inform me i'll see ur reply thnx