I know alot of you are younger than me and already have children. I am twenty and so is dad he will be 21 in april. The thing is I work at an inhome daycare making 7.50 an hour under the table no benefits or anything and dad is at an unstable job. Our plan is by the end of this month, to move in with his mom ouch! I cant stand her and save all of our money while dad tries to find like a 40 hour week job and me still at the daycare as long as I can so that we can find an apartment we now rent someones basement for 400 a month and all the other bills and do just fine. I am just worried like it's way more expensive for a regular apartment and with the economy so bad I worry he might lose his job. Also babysitting when I want to go to work. My family isn't supporting us about having this baby they'd be much happier with an abortion but screw them anyway they are like an hour away from me and also my mom died in 2001 so I dont have her and his mom is a severe alcholic in which that case she'll only get to see the baby when we are visiting. I am just so scared because we really have noone. My sis had her first when she was 17 and u wont believe this , the dad was only 14!!!!!!!! But they have 2 boys 8 and 10 and they are still 2gether and have a wonderful family and they had noone either . Sorry its so long but I know you all have been there done that I need you all my family just tells me how much I will struggle and that my man will leave me(aint worried about that. Very much inlove and he seems happier to be a parent that me lol) anyways i'll end this before I turn it into a book! Lol ~ erica.