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missy1985
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Who Is My Baby's Father?
Posted: 04-19-06 07:15am
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Ok I was wondering if u could help me. I
am 11 weeks and 3 days pregnant or so my
ultrasound told me. My last period was
22nd jan I have been having sex with my
boyfriend nearly everyday since before
then and after but on the 11th of feb. I
had sex with my ex boyfriend is there any
chance that the baby could be his? Ive
gone through it hundreds of times in my
head but I cant enjoy my pregnancy until I
know that it is my boyfriends baby.
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Bridget
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Posted: 04-19-06 09:57am
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Any chance? There is a *huge* chance.
I'm 12 weeks and 1 day, I conceived around
feb 7th. For you to be 11 weeks 3 days
you would've conceived around feb 12th. I
see a trip to maury for a paternity test
in your future.
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missy1985
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Posted: 04-21-06 11:34am
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But doesnt it work out that I conceived on
the 28th of jan. As I know how many weeks
and how many days I am because thats what
I worked it back to. Im really worried
cos my ex boyfriend was black and my
current boyfriend isnt! So its gonna be
quite obvious to say the least!
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-21-06 11:59am
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Guess your in a pickle aren't you hun? I
can't imagine going the whole nine months
not knowing. I think if you have an
amnio they can test the dna, but then you
will need your b/f or ex's dna as well.
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Bridget
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Posted: 04-21-06 12:08pm
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| missy1985
wrote: | | but doesnt it work out that
I conceived on the 28th of jan. As I
know how many weeks and how many days I am
because thats what I worked it back to.
Im really worried cos my ex boyfriend was
black and my current boyfriend isnt! So
its gonna be quite obvious to say the
least! |
ok, this is going to be confusing but i'll
try to explain it... The doctor starts
counting your pregnancy at the first day
of your last period, but yours seems to be
going by the size of your baby on the
ultrasound (if they were going by your
last period you'd be 12 weeks 5 days).
The first day of my last period was jan
24th, I am now 12 weeks 3 days. You don't
actually conceive until about 2 weeks
after that (assuming you have a normal
28-day cycle) when you're ovulating. I
think they start counting at the start of
your last period to make things easier and
that's why they say you could give birth 2
weeks before your due date up to 2 weeks
after and anywhere in that window. It's
all very confusing. So in your case,
based on you counting back the weeks to
january 28th, I would say you conceived
around february 11th. Guess you'll see
who the daddy is when you give birth!
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missy1985
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Posted: 04-21-06 13:03pm
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Ok so the first day of my last period was
22nd jan so that would mean I conceived
around the 5th of feb if its about 2 weeks
after the lmp. I know im keeping on but
this is really doing my head in so is it
still poss that it could be my exs? I
guess there is still a chance but a slim
one? Would it be poss to do a dna test
before baby is born without my boyfriend
knowing what the test is for? Thanks for
your advice by the way.
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missy1985
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Posted: 04-21-06 13:19pm
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Lol yeah I can promise u I will, hes
moving to germany anyway. I just need to
put my mind at rest. Ill have a chat with
my midwife on tuesday, see what she says
bout the whole situation... Thankies.
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HAILEYTREYJORDAN
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Fyi
Posted: 06-10-07 21:40pm
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I am not judgin you at all, don't get me
wrong, but if you are going to have sex
with more than one guy. WEAR A CONDOM WITH
THE ONE YOU ARE CHEATING
WITH>>>you don't want to have his
baby nor do you want to take any funny
stuff home.....
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Bridget
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Posted: 06-10-07 21:47pm
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please check dates when replying to posts.
this thread is over a year old.
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