Well done 2 u girl! That must've been really tough being only 13 but its very commedable that u kept ur daughter, despite problems with the father as well.I too am anti-abortion so I think a lot of people like u who choose not 2 have abortions,
liz x

Thank you very much! Yes it was very hard, but well worth it! I love my daughter more than life itself!!

Kelly

I know u posted this a while ago but good for u .Lol all 3 of us hang out in the teen pregnancy room. Anyway this abortion forum angers me off. I just got done going off well not literally on someone and feel kinda bad but know I shouldn't I said it in the post abortion syndrome topic. Seriously I dont know what the hell is wrong with people these days. I understand they dont want an abortion because it was an accident n all but hey, theres alot of things in life we dont want but just have to deal with it. Who could not want a baby? Just wanted to say im soooooo proud of you being 19 and rasing your daughter (applause) lol I thought about abortion for a sec when I found out then realized that was the damn devil messin with my head. Im now goin in 3 months of bein pregnant and lovin it!! ~ erica.

Erica thank you very very much for your support and admiration! You sound like your going to be a great mom, you have your head on straight! Keep pushing forward!

Kelly

Wow... U are incredibly strong. Im anti-abortion as well.. But I think if I was as young as u I woulda adopted it out just because its sooo young. .But for u to be able to handle that as a child...Applause to u, that is big!! I am 18 and preg now and my ex boyfriend begged for me to get an abortion~ no way.. I dont kill children.

To all of those that are coming in to this forum considering abortion...Don't do it! Your baby is here for a reason, and all you need is to love it. Finances may not be good, you may have a lot going on, but no matter what your "excuse" is, you can make it past this. Kelly had hers at 13, I believe that that would have been a big "excuse" but look, she did it and she is happy. There are so many out there that wish they could have a baby, and your throwing them away like they are trash. Please reconsider any thoughts on abortion.

Jennifer

Thank you sooo much again!! You girls are great!

Kelly

Wow....Thats very very very young....And I admire you for still going through it...Best wishes!

Yes I sure was young! Thanks for your admiration!

Kelly

Congrats and what a smart decision kelly!

You are mixing your beliefs with medicine and it's not right. I am pro choice. A baby is not a baby until you've given birth to it. Can a fetus drink from a bottle? Can a fetus cross the street? Can a fetus do their chores? Did think so. Stop confusing your logic with science. Having a baby when you are twelve was your decision not everyone elses. Congrats on doing it alone, but it was your choice.
Thanks

Maybe so but if at 12 years old I can pull my act together and raise my daughter, and take responsibility for my actions why can't a married 27 year old? I don't feel like arguing with you, i've got enough stuff going on right now to argue why you shouldn't take the life away from someone else. Also one final thing at heart beat starts at 21 days gestation, that is 3 weeks, and most women don't find out they are preg until after 6 weeks.

Kelly

Again a heartbeat doesn't make it child. The child makes it a child. Let's think logicly. Not sure what the married 27yo comment was about... Again, your choices were your choices. It's not okay to condem other's for there decitions to have an abortion.

Your right, it just makes life, big deal right?

We'll refer back to: can a fetus talk? Walk? Eat? We can apply the same abstraction to: can a heart beat talk, walk, eat? That's what I thought, no. A fetus cannot survive without a carrier. Therefore it's the carrier's choice to have or not have. Yes, a heartbeat is essential for survival, but so is the rest of the body... How bout breath... Can the baby breathe? Can it eat on it's own? Is that not life too?

Oh shut up jesse you go around in forums posting the same crap can a fetus walk, do it's chores. Didnt think so blah blah go find a different argument. Since u like abortions so much, go study medicine and become and abortionist so u can help the women who want one kill a baby. Get a life. ~ erica.

I hope for your children's sake you don't use that inane logic. (go be an abortion doctor, and kill babies...) wow, how old are you?
Please stop breeding.

Wow jesse you've got no balls or boobs...Whatever you are!!! If it has a heartbeat...Its homicide. How do you know that a fetus dosen't have feelings?? Think of it this way...You say a fetus cannot survive w/out its carrier. Neither can a small child. A small child needs someone to care for them. So basically your saying it is okay to kill a small child (say 2 or 3 yrs old) think about what you say before you actually post it, because your looking like a person.

~sara~

I sorta agree erica u are starting to look foolish and even though my bf and I are trying for out own bundle of joy and even though I would never get an abortion myself, and I have nothing against those who have one, who consider or those or are against one.

But I pose this question if u r all against abortion then y do u continue to come to this particular forum and be anti abortion, as I have always stated all theses forums are for ppl to discuss problems they may be having and to get different opinions but dont u think that a women posting in this forum might be considering abortion and therefore u guys telling her not to do might be making wot is already a hard decision even harder.

I dont mean to cause an arguement or get on anybodys bad side nor offend anybody, was just asking a question.

From someone who cant wait to have a jelly bean all of their own