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Q: Downbeat And Single
asked by: david2222 on April 18th, 2006
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Hiya

i recently met a girl who is the same age to me. I am 21 and I met her when I went to my mates uni. She lives about 30 mins on the train away. She is such an amazing girl and we get on so well together

shes said to me that she fancies me but will never ger with me as she still loves her bf and they went out for 4 years. I am hoping that soon in the future that she may change her mind and go for me but it seems unlikely

i belive she likes me as we have had sex and she pays all that money to saty over the night. She has been up 3 or 4 times and I have been to see her a couple of times.

Shud I play the waiting game or should I move on. I have never had a proper girl friend in my life so I get down beat about the situation as I feel like ive been rejected despite understanding her situation and knowing she does like me! Shud I take all this as a positively as she said she wud of gone out with me if things werent awkward
it just hurts so much as she is very specail and ive come so near but yet so far.

Do think she is playing me as a mug? Shud I move on... Despite there are no other girls im keen on in my life... ? Please advice... Thank you
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Kittykatus
replied on May 19th, 2006
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Sorry, did she sleep with you whilst she was with her boyfriend?

If so, no offence, but I think that you may have been taken for a ride.

If you really love sum1 or apperciate them you don't have sum1 else in your grasp. What if you were in her boyfriend's shoes?

You don't have to hold onto her just because you apparently have 'no one' in your life. You just have to let things take time
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spectermonkey
replied on March 4th, 2007
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Ditto!

You slept with her when she said she had a boyfriend already?
Who's to say there aren't 2 or three other guys she really "fancies". This sounds like (no offense,man) the plot of some kind of afternoon soap opera.
I'd say move on.
There are plenty of other hot nice girls out there. It'll take some time to get over this one, but you've gotta move on.
She sounds like trouble.
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help
replied on March 4th, 2007
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Im sorry but you dont go intruding on other peoples relationships, girls with boyfriends are out of bounds!! I understand that it takes 2 to tango and i definately dont agree with what she is doing but you need to run, quick smart!!

When you say she pays you to stay the night, she pays you for sex??
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