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Johnnj
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Joined: 11 Oct 2005
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Oral Sex
Posted: 04-18-06 15:43pm
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Hey my gf has been to afarid to give me
oral for a while now we have been dating
for almost 8 months and I have been eating
her out for about 4 months and we have
talked and have gotten in to fights about
it I told her I would never break up with
her over it but its really starting to get
to me wht should I do
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jen1604
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Location: UK
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Posted: 04-18-06 15:53pm
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Why is she too afraid?What are her
reasons?
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Johnnj
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Posted: 04-18-06 20:18pm
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She thinks it will taste bad and she wont
do it right
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Spirit
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Joined: 12 Mar 2006
Posts: 388
Location: Canada
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Posted: 04-18-06 21:56pm
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Will she watch porno films with you? Or
if that's too racy for her how about
pornographic... I mean artistic picture
book? Maybe she's afraid she'll like it
too much and won't be able to stop. :)
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Krittyk
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Location: Australia
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Posted: 04-21-06 02:32am
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You shouldnt break up with her over that!
Does she have sex with u?
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Johnnj
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Posted: 04-22-06 23:01pm
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I am not gonna break up with her over tht
and no she dosent have sex for me she
really dose not do any thing for but
handjobs hear and there
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Kia
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Location: Planet Tampaxia,
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Posted: 04-23-06 11:08am
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I think you have a very very sensible
young lady there - you ought to respect
her.
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Johnnj
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Posted: 04-23-06 19:58pm
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I respect her but I want a little back
maybe
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fighter12389
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Location: minnesota
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Kia
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Posted: 04-24-06 02:30am
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I think you're rather selfish.
You have a sensible girl who is not giving
in to your pushing for sex.
She deserves better.
When the time is right and she feels ready
she will give whatever she pleases and
until such time her body is her temple and
she has every right to refuse whatever she
wishes.
I so wish more girls had her brains.
Girls take a leaf from her book - if you
don't wanna do it then don't - it's your
right to say no.
His balls will not go blue/explode/or fall
off or any other rubbish he may try to
tell you.
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mum???
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Location: Gloucester UK
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Showers Are Great..............
Posted: 04-28-06 19:40pm
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I do agree with you kia but if she does
end up giving you a blow job and still is
afraid of it tasting bad then get in the
shower together and make yourselves
squeaky clean (which you should be already
when giving oral sex to iether party)and
in that way you wont tast or smell
bad.Jade.
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lsipes
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Posted: 04-29-06 03:20am
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | i think you're rather
selfish.
You have a sensible girl who is not giving
in to your pushing for sex.
She deserves better.
When the time is right and she feels ready
she will give whatever she pleases and
until such time her body is her temple and
she has every right to refuse whatever she
wishes.
I so wish more girls had her brains.
Girls take a leaf from her book - if you
don't wanna do it then don't - it's your
right to say no.
His balls will not go blue/explode/or fall
off or any other rubbish he may try to
tell you. |
i don't think he's being selfish. He's
offering it to her and she doesn't
reciprocate.
However, it sounds to me like she has
confidence issues. This happens to a lot
of girls, worrying they won't do it right,
you won't like it, you'll laugh, etc.
Reassure her that you care about her and
none of the above will happen. If she
does end up doing it for you, and you want
her to do it differently, tell her. In a
very non-critical way. "doing it thisway
woudl feel great", etc. It's a very
personal issue and I have a lot of friends
that have the same problems with doing it
as your girlfriend.
If she genuinely doesn't want to then
there's nothing you can really do. But
whatever you do, don't fight with her over
it anymore because that just probably
makes her feel more pressure and anxiety
about it. I'm assuming she's never done
it before, she's probably scared of
looking stupid. Just talk to her.
Besides, there's hardly such a thing as a
bad blowjob, it's pretty hard to get a guy
to complain about one. :)
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Johnnj
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 04-30-06 11:28am
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For the girls saying shes right and stuff
u really dont no wht its like to be a guy
all I want is a little back for
allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the
stuff I do for her is tht really so much
to ask
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