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Q: Oral Sex
asked by: Johnnj on April 18th, 2006
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Hey my gf has been to afarid to give me oral for a while now we have been dating for almost 8 months and I have been eating her out for about 4 months and we have talked and have gotten in to fights about it I told her I would never break up with her over it but its really starting to get to me wht should I do
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jen1604
replied on April 18th, 2006
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Why is she too afraid?What are her reasons?
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Johnnj
replied on April 18th, 2006
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She thinks it will taste bad and she wont do it right
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Spirit
replied on April 18th, 2006
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Will she watch porno films with you? Or if that's too racy for her how about pornographic... I mean artistic picture book? Maybe she's afraid she'll like it too much and won't be able to stop. :)
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Krittyk
replied on April 21st, 2006
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You shouldnt break up with her over that! Does she have sex with u?
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Johnnj
replied on April 22nd, 2006
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I am not gonna break up with her over tht

and no she dosent have sex for me she really dose not do any thing for but handjobs hear and there
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Kia
replied on April 23rd, 2006
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I think you have a very very sensible young lady there - you ought to respect her.
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Johnnj
replied on April 23rd, 2006
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I respect her but I want a little back maybe
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fighter12389
replied on April 24th, 2006
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How old is she?
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Kia
replied on April 24th, 2006
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I think you're rather selfish.
You have a sensible girl who is not giving in to your pushing for sex.
She deserves better.
When the time is right and she feels ready she will give whatever she pleases and until such time her body is her temple and she has every right to refuse whatever she wishes.

I so wish more girls had her brains.

Girls take a leaf from her book - if you don't wanna do it then don't - it's your right to say no.
His balls will not go blue/explode/or fall off or any other rubbish he may try to tell you.
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mum???
replied on April 28th, 2006
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Showers Are Great..............
I do agree with you kia but if she does end up giving you a blow job and still is afraid of it tasting bad then get in the shower together and make yourselves squeaky clean (which you should be already when giving oral sex to iether party)and in that way you wont tast or smell bad.Jade.
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lsipes
replied on April 29th, 2006
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kia_breizzze wrote:
i think you're rather selfish.

You have a sensible girl who is not giving in to your pushing for sex.

She deserves better.

When the time is right and she feels ready she will give whatever she pleases and until such time her body is her temple and she has every right to refuse whatever she wishes.


I so wish more girls had her brains.


Girls take a leaf from her book - if you don't wanna do it then don't - it's your right to say no.

His balls will not go blue/explode/or fall off or any other rubbish he may try to tell you.


i don't think he's being selfish. He's offering it to her and she doesn't reciprocate.
However, it sounds to me like she has confidence issues. This happens to a lot of girls, worrying they won't do it right, you won't like it, you'll laugh, etc. Reassure her that you care about her and none of the above will happen. If she does end up doing it for you, and you want her to do it differently, tell her. In a very non-critical way. "doing it thisway woudl feel great", etc. It's a very personal issue and I have a lot of friends that have the same problems with doing it as your girlfriend.
If she genuinely doesn't want to then there's nothing you can really do. But whatever you do, don't fight with her over it anymore because that just probably makes her feel more pressure and anxiety about it. I'm assuming she's never done it before, she's probably scared of looking stupid. Just talk to her. Besides, there's hardly such a thing as a bad blowjob, it's pretty hard to get a guy to complain about one. :)
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Johnnj
replied on April 30th, 2006
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For the girls saying shes right and stuff u really dont no wht its like to be a guy all I want is a little back for allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the stuff I do for her is tht really so much to ask
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