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Q: Please Help Guys! Will Pills Stop This?
asked by: Crazyness24 on April 18th, 2006
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Good morning, I need some advice. I have a lot of issues in my head. Mainly trust issues. I’ve been with my boyfriend 3 years. I’ve always been insecure and don’t have much confidence. I have a lot of anxiety issues. It pushes and eats and me so much that im ruining my relationship. If he looks at a girl in a magazine I think he’s leaving me. If another guy asks for his opinion on another girl I think he;s going to leave me and I can no longer go through live with this and my anxiety makes it worse. He can say one sentence to me and i’ll analyze it for 4 hours and make myself sick over it. Does this mean he’s leaving me? Is he cheating? And the thing is he wouldn’t do that but I continue to feel everyones going to leave me. I feel everyones out to get me all the time. He has asked me to change many times and I never do. But he still stays with me. I need to know, if I take medication for my anxiety will this help me? Does anyone else have any problems like this? Im so worried im having problems breathing I hate this. I shouldn’t have to worry everyday about things that may not even happen! What should I do? Will anxiety pills help me at all?

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shandeesh
replied on April 18th, 2006
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Please Help Guys! Will Pills Stop This?
Honestly, I don't think that pills will help the fact that you have severe abandonment issues! I think that you need a therapist to help you find out why you feel everyone is going to leave you or is out to get you. Your anxiety stems from you fear that he will leave you. So, if you can fix that problem, which trust me comes from the past, then I don't think you will have anxiety issues anymore. Your problems have nothing to do with your boyfriend, trust me. Pills will not take away the fact that you are afraid he will leave you. I think you should really seek therapy. Be willing to look at yourself and your past and fix it. I don't believe in living in the past, but I do believe if it is affecting you, that you should confront it with a therapist so that it doesn't affect the rest of your life and relationships. Good luck.
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Crazyness24
replied on April 19th, 2006
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Re: Please Help Guys! Will Pills Stop This?
shandeesh wrote:
honestly, I don't think that pills will help the fact that you have severe abandonment issues! I think that you need a therapist to help you find out why you feel everyone is going to leave you or is out to get you. Your anxiety stems from you fear that he will leave you. So, if you can fix that problem, which trust me comes from the past, then I don't think you will have anxiety issues anymore. Your problems have nothing to do with your boyfriend, trust me. Pills will not take away the fact that you are afraid he will leave you. I think you should really seek therapy. Be willing to look at yourself and your past and fix it. I don't believe in living in the past, but I do believe if it is affecting you, that you should confront it with a therapist so that it doesn't affect the rest of your life and relationships. Good luck.


thank you so much. I know its not his fault. I am going to be speaking with a therapist im gonna call my insurance company today. I appriciate you taking the time to explain this to me. Thank you
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