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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-21-06 07:44am
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| hopefulmjz
wrote: | i just wish I had *a* car!
Mine is all smooshed up :( the other
insurance company won't return my phone
calls either. The lady handling this is
always "on another call" how long do the
calls last? Geez! I keep bugging them
but they have yet to call me back. We
may end up gettin' a lawyer.
Too bad our electric scooters are illegal
to drive on the roads
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did you read my post on your other post
abuot your car???
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-21-06 08:01am
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| kymmie
wrote: | | erm... I was watching the
national geographic channel one day and I
boy, he was like 6-10 years old or
something like that, was pregnant with his
twin brother. It was said that inside
the uterus he absorbed his brother and is
brother, although not alive, was feeding
off of him (kinda disturbing! O_o) he
was made fun of by the other kids at
school cuz he actually .L.O.O.K.E.D
pregnant, then a couple of months before
his operation he constantly complained of
stomach aches, when they took the lump out
of him it had hair, and things on its
"body" that could be compared to a normal
human but, where is brain should be, it
wasnt there (*dramatic music!!!!*) but
...Yea, I thought that might sorta kinda
maby might be related to the "stone baby"
*shrug* |
wow,that pretty insane! I couldn't
believe it unless I saw it :shock:
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-21-06 08:01am
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| sandralynn
wrote: | my sentiments exactly.
Sometimes it brings tears to my eyes. Oh
and when we make love and I can see into
his eyes... He stares at me like hes
trying to see into my soul.. Puts a
thousand butterflies in my stomach every
time.. I'm gunna go upstairs and give
him a big kiss..
Be right back.
:-) |
wish I could see that in my b/f,although
we've only been together for 3 months. .
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-21-06 09:19am
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| sandralynn
wrote: | my sentiments exactly.
Sometimes it brings tears to my eyes.
Oh and when we make love and I can see
into his eyes... He stares at me like
hes trying to see into my soul.. Puts a
thousand butterflies in my stomach every
time.. I'm gunna go upstairs and give
him a big kiss..
Be right back.
:-) |
aaawww that is soo sweet, I love my
husband and he is ruining that part of it
for me. He doesnt' understand what I am
going thru right now and he is ruining how
much I love him and all I can see is the
jerk that I didnt' know he could be. I
didnt' realize that he could treat me like
this and the love I have for him is
faiding and it's hurting more than I know.
I just want it to be me and him again
like it was before I got preggerrs. But
I wouldnt' change the fact that I am
preggers, I already love my baby. Maybe
the love that I have for him is just going
to her. Does that make since?
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-21-06 09:25am
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I can understand what you meani'm not
pregnant but me and my b/f were always
fine and happy and everything was
good.Then one day he got drunk and I saw
the worst part of him I thought didn't
exhist and it hurt,i don't like seeing it
but it's a part of him.What is wrong with
him and your relationship?Why does he act
like that toward you?It's ok if you don't
want to answer,i was just wondering.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-21-06 09:46am
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I don't know really, but what I think it
is:
we used to go out and have a good time.
We would run the town all weekend long
from thrusday thru sunday, and now that I
dont' even have the urge to do that, he
just kinda has distanced himself from me.
I did for a while, I would go out with
all our friends but not drink or anything,
but recently I just don't feel like doing
that stuff anymore.
My husband owns his own business, here in
florida, therefore he knows a lot of
people, everywhere we go he sees people he
knows and we have to stop and talk and
whatnot. You know? I hate that, always
have. But it's really hard right now
that I cant' go and do everything, my hips
have been hurthing a lot and I get soo
tired so quickly it's reduculous. (sp)
monday night, he came home from work early
and we talked about it. He (for the last
few days) has seemed to change. But's
its friday, we will see. I just want us
to be a family because after she is born I
will not be pulling and allie and going
out every weekend. But the love that I
have lost for him, may not be able to be
replaced. I dont' know how he can just
leave to go out until all hours of the
night and leave me stranded because he
takes my car. And I can't get up into
his work truck, it's raised like 8 inches.
Then he comes home waking me up and
wanting some. But it's not the same as
before when he would romance me.
Sorry so long just hopes this gives you an
idea of what it's like.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-21-06 10:37am
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No I can understand that.I think thats
effed up girl!Why would you want to go
out,your freakin pregnant for heavens
sake?Doesn't he know a baby changes
things?Your going to be a mommy and he
will be a daddy.It sounds like he still
wants to party and isn't ready to give it
up yet.I think iot's mean thast he leaves
you like that to go out.If I were him I
would be going out too,but only to get you
ice cream! Lol i'm sry you are going
through all that :cry:
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-21-06 11:30am
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | no I can understand that.I
think thats effed up girl!Why would you
want to go out,your freakin pregnant for
heavens sake?Doesn't he know a baby
changes things?Your going to be a mommy
and he will be a daddy.It sounds like he
still wants to party and isn't ready to
give it up yet.I think iot's mean thast he
leaves you like that to go out.If I were
him I would be going out too,but only to
get you ice cream! Lol i'm sry you are
going through all that
:cry: |
lol. Yeah, the weird thing was, when I
was preggers with hunter he didn't do
stuff like this. He was by my side the
whole time. But this time around he
isn't the same. I know that he is scared
of loosing this one too but come on
treating me like this isn't right. Maybe
he will change maybe not. But I do know
that weathe he likes it or not he will be
supporting his little girl. We will see
how things turn out.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-21-06 12:14pm
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Yeah he is probably scared but like you
said thats no reason for him to treat you
like that.Have you talked to him about
it,what you just said?
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-21-06 12:31pm
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Or maybe he really wanted a boy?
Seriously,i don't know.Thats weird how he
acts different though
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-21-06 12:39pm
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Sandra, it sounds so nice for me to think
that it could happen that way, but
everyone knows that having a changes
things. It will either change things for
the good, or for the bad. I love my
husband more than life it's self. He was
the best guy in the whole world. And we
were inseperatable....You were right we
did everthing together, after the baby
died we became closer together than ever
and I couldnt' go 2 hours without him
calling me...Now I am lucky if he calls me
once a day. It hurts loosing him this
way. It's kinda like he wants to be
single again, but at the same time he
wants me to still do his laundry and feed
him, kinda like his mother would do.
The more I think about it today, I am
realizing that he may not change. But I
have to give him the time to change. I
love him too much. I hate that he makes
me cry like he does, and I hate that he
sees me cry, I am a strong person until
it comes to him and the way he treats me.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-21-06 12:43pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | or maybe he really wanted a
boy? Seriously,i don't know.Thats weird
how he acts different
though |
maybe he did want a boy. I don't know.
But he says that she is his life, but he
has one hell of a way of showing it. I
think that maybe if he could carry her for
a few days and feel the feeling of when
she moves around. I want him to feel the
life that I feel everytime she rolls
around in there and her kicks and thumps.
I want him to know the feeling of what
it's like to realize that there is a baby
that depends on me and everytime she moves
I am reminded of how much she needs me to
take care of her and I will do anything it
takes, it's hard sometimes but it's ok
because I will be rewared in the end.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-21-06 12:43pm
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| sandralynn
wrote: | | try asking him why hes being
such an problem. Tell him to be brutally
honest. Maybe that will get him to open
up. |
thast what i'm saying.Talk to him and task
him whats up with his attitude and his
actions.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-21-06 12:48pm
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | or maybe he really wanted a
boy? Seriously,i don't know.Thats weird
how he acts different
though |
maybe he did want a boy. I don't know.
But he says that she is his life, but he
has one hell of a way of showing it. I
think that maybe if he could carry her for
a few days and feel the feeling of when
she moves around. I want him to feel
the life that I feel everytime she rolls
around in there and her kicks and thumps.
I want him to know the feeling of what
it's like to realize that there is a baby
that depends on me and everytime she moves
I am reminded of how much she needs me to
take care of her and I will do anything it
takes, it's hard sometimes but it's ok
because I will be rewared in the
end. |
don't we all wish we could do that so they
could see/feel what we see/feel, then
maybe we wouldn't have so many babies
without daddys
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-21-06 12:49pm
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He just tells me I am being a health forum
and that I should be more attentive to his
needs. It's all about him right now.
Eventhough my hips hurt, I get out of
breath by just walking down our hall way,
I am having bh already, and I am more
tired because he doesn't come home....It's
still all about him and the stuff that he
want's to do. I try to talk to him...But
he ends up yelling and telling me to 'f'
off and then leaves because I am
preasureing him. He says that he doesn't
need to be pushed into being a
father....But on the other hand (when he
is sorry for his actions) she is his life
and his only reason for living right now.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-21-06 12:50pm
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| melissa_20
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don't we all wish we could do that so they
could see/feel what we see/feel, then
maybe we wouldn't have so many babies
without
daddys |
yeah I think that we should share the
responcibility of having a healthy baby
born.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-21-06 12:52pm
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I agree with her,i would leave and see how
much he actually misses you and sees how
much he needs you(not just to do your
laundry either). I'm sorry you have to go
through all of this especially while your
preggy.It's not good for the baby.You
should tell him he's stressing you out and
it's not good for your baby girl
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 04-21-06 13:28pm
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Maybe I will leave for a while. I am
better than this, I may go stay with my
sis for a few days and maybe he will
understand that I am not playing. I just
get the thoughts that maybe he won't call.
But if he doesn't then I don't need him.
Talking about it has helped, thanks guys
genipher
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-21-06 13:32pm
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You don;t deserve that type of
treatment,your too sweet and you have a
little one's needs & yours to worry
about over his! I would go stay with
someone. . .Get away from it for a while
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