Abortion Help Please!!! At 15weeks

Hi there! 15 weeks is ok but is is your choice and yours alone. Have you thought about adoption?

The best to you!

Thanx so much!!!

Abortion at 15 weeks is very safe, you are early second trimester, and it is rountinely done!

I have helped perform many 12-16 weeks abortions and they all went smoothly.

Hi there thanx for all ur advice, I do feel awfull. I read the books and see baby at that stage n I feel guilt... My friend had one and sent me a link. About they cut baby up like to get it out is this true????? I cant let them do that to my baby no matter what...
Quote="carifairy"]abortion at 15 weeks is very safe, you are early second trimester, and it is rountinely done!


I have helped perform many 12-16 weeks abortions and they all went smoothly.[/quote]

I jus raed that again that sounds so...Bad.... Like I wont let em do that but im willing go through with it!!!! Erm what I mean is my mate told me they cut up with like froceps, like its legs and arms and brains and stuff. And it dies cause its heart cant cope. I jus feel thats nasty

No at 15 weeks they use suction, only later do they need to use forcepts..Like 17-18 weeks. All abortions use suction, but they sometimes need to use forcepts to make sure they get the placenta and other tissues out..But suction is used.

Oh thanx!!!!!!! So much, my minds at rest a little. Jus I feel I cant give this baby a life it will want, my bf dosnt wanna know it. And jus all bad at the moment, I will regret this till the day I die. Im 14weeks now. And be 15weeks when have abortion, I still have time to think, jus adoption I wud see baby and I wouldnt let it go...

An I just ask why you feel you need to terminate ?
I,m not trying to change your mind or pry you just have not nemtioned your reason(which is your right not to of course).

This link may help
http://www.Americanpregnancy.Or g/unplannedpregnancy/surgicalabortions.Htm l

Ummm she doesn't need propaganda to make her feelbadly.

If she was 26 weeks and wanted to terminate because she felt fat, it is her perogative.. This is a suport board, her reasons are hers alone, and none of your concern.

Are you in newcastle in the uk? Just wondering, here's the nhs information on abortion procedures
http://www.Nhsdirect.Nhs .Uk/articles/article.Aspx?Articleid=1& sectionid=11009
if you are in the uk then it'll be carried out under general anaesthetic. Ignore what your friend has been saying, people often exaggerate about abortion proceudres, usually when they are misinformed or have another agenda.

Whatever you decide this has to be your choice.. There is support available for after an abortion (and also support if you decide not to have the termination).

Nightangel, that's not appropriate in this forum, it's the abortion support forum so lets not go into questioning why one method is different to another. She's clearly having conflict in her life at the moment, lets try to just be supportive.

Moo I agree in giving her support and part of supporting her is making sure she is making the right decision regarding her abortion. I feel she is not 100% sure she wants an abortion and it has been said here many times that if you are not 100% sure then better not do it. I'm sure you don't want that she lives the remaining of her life with regret (which can include suicide attempts, depression etc). That's all

I agree entirely, no-one should have an abortion unless they are 100%. I'm pleased she's asked for advice though, hopefully she'll make the right decision for her.

I too agree. This is a support forum, not a debate forum, she has her reasons for being here and we are here to respect them. We are here for you. Please do not forget to ask for help afterwards even though you should not have to ask their are times they forget to ask you if you need or would like help after the procedure.

The best to you!

This is a support forum.. Please keep your opinions to yourself or for the pro life / pro choice forums or the debate forum.... Thank you!!!!!!!!
If your post is not supportive it will be deleted!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry for the hassle we do have some people on the forums who just dont understand or never will... Good luck to you hun in whatever decision that you make.. We will be right here for you..

Im 19, and yeah I live in newcastle united kingdom, ur right I aint 100% sure its hard as im 50-50... Jus that I want my life. My life now is so far from how it was before, my head all over the place, I jus want my old life back. I do love my baby, but jus isnt the right time. I do feel bad, u can all judge me I dont care, so much has happend in my life,. I have 2year old brother there to remind me what kids are like, I love him loads, bt my mum is depressed at mo, and I have made worse by been pregnant, and im stressed, cause my bf wont support me through this pregnancy, he wants us to buy house and then maybe in 2-3 years when we have traveled world and seen things, and actually lived together n married then have baby, I do feel the same. This baby wouldnt be loved by its dad, and wont have a dad, and I dont really want to be single mum at all. I was carfull was on the pill. And its all the wrong time, I mean my stepdad is in the army, and my parents can move anytime, and I would be alone with no family in newcastle.

What do u mean edit?????

Edit means!!!!!!!!!!

The topic was erased because it was not supportive.. If there is ever a topic that does not pertain to supporting the mother/father whoever the poster may be.. It will be deleted or edited so that it is not offensive towards the poster..