surgery on facial reconstructive Posted: 10-03-08 18:11pm
just spoke to the plastic surgeon about
reshaping one side of the jaw just to even
it out with the other, he said he'll
charge me 5thousand. I asked him if anyone
died or became paralyzed from it and he
said no, all he's worried about is
infection.
just to let u know reshaping means shaving
down the jaw bone which is a serious
PROCEDURE and i am pretty scared, i just
hope that i can move my mouth and face
after the surgery but it's a risk i want
to take because i feel so insecure and
ugly about myself how i can never tie up
my hair, it's a risk for happiness.
Has any one know anything about someone
going through this surgery and became
paralyzed? right now i'm planning to go
through the procedure first i have to save
up some money, i'm playing to get it done
next year '09 around autom, so i'll update
for u guys,before and after o.k(*_*)
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gimlet
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Posted: 10-03-08 20:28pm
Paralysis seems like it would be a pretty
unlikely side effect. Complete paralysis
would only result from damage to your
central nervous system (brain, spine),
which is probably impossible from jaw
surgery.
Partial numbness might occur if part of
the peripheral nervous system is damaged,
like a nerve, but it's not necessarily
permanent.
Your doctor is a specialist though, he
would know the risks. If he says his only
concern is infection, then that's probably
all you should be worried about.
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help me plaese
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my face is uneven, 1 side is wider than
the other this happened because of very
poor dental hygiene at a young age and
life style. i had a lot of candies n my
mom did not feed me enough healthy food
because we were poor plus at the age of
3/4 i remebered when i had a very tooth
ACHE i think it was a cavity or something
worse my mom did no take me to the dentist
she just gave me medicine and when i was
young my grandma told me to sleep on the
right side because she thought that by
sleeping on the left will cause heart
attacks or something harmful to the heart,
i'm soooo sad i wished that i nevered
listen! and the shape of my head is FLAT,
the back of my head is REALLY FLAT, boo
hoo, my mom or caregiver did not take care
of me i bet you that they just left me
laying flat on the bed and back then the
bed was solid HARD wooden or so.
as well as i always slept on one side for
many many years till now, when my grown up
teeth start growing in no one took me to
the dentist to remove one baby tooth on
the top right of the 2front teeth the one
right beside it so it grew under/behind
the baby tooth which made my face to
become undeveloped. The way your face
looks all depends on the linning of your
teeth i did some studies on it. So it is
always best to have braces.
(when your teeth do not close together
evenly the face will change like if u are
crassbite then your face is
croocked/slanted, if you have over bite
then your lip will look like a bird, and
if the top teeth is smaller and the bottom
is wider then the face will look
unbalance, etc... so my jaw became uneven
which made my face ugly)
*my left side of face is wider than right
side, JAW lin is very uneven and the
corner angle of the jaw on the left is
bigger/huge than the right side plus the
muscle is bigger as well.
results:
1- no one picked me up when i was a BABY
and left me sleeping on a flat hard
surface, so my head is FLAT like a WALL!
so my head is flat at the back and i slept
on the 1 side which put pressure on it
gave me a flat side surface.
2-very poor dental hygiene every since i
was young, all my baby teeth was black
filled with cavity, no one took me to the
dentist until my older teeth started
growing in.
3-slept on 1 side of my face for many many
yearsss untill now
4-uneven teeth closing together, 1
tooth(right side) grew behind the other
which the bone did not expand normally
like the other side.
5-when u have a cavity or sore gumm you
need to get it fixed right away by going
to the dentist otherwise the infection
will go under the gumm to detoriate your
bone. Plus brushing,flossing, and mouth
wash is the key to good oral hygiene as
well as going to the dentist regularly,
now i go to the dentist almost every 3-4
months to get my teeth cleaned.
6-I got a hard nock out by someone very
close, to the left side near the cheek and
temple area which might've caused me to
have TMJ
7-GENES
8-The widen/abnormal side will always have
something wrong with it,studies said..
it's so true beause on that side of my
face it seems to have more acne then
other.
9-FACIAL Bone structure will stop growing
by the age of 25, so get braces as young
as POSSIBLE!
10- The head shape will determine on how
the face shape will become as well, for
instint: uneven head (ROUND head is the
ideal shape) will result to uneven face,
flat head will give you a wider face.
***HEY EvERYONE*** if any of these u
have incommon/ related to, i think i know
how to prevent it from happenning to your
children when you have them.
CURES:
1- do the opposite of what i wrote at the
top.
#1 KEY- hold your baby and try not to
leave it laying for a long time, the goal
is to achieve a ROUND OVAL head not flat
or uneven, you should turn the head side
to side it will put pressure on the sides
not back and the result will give you more
of an oval look. Adult's heaf usually
weigh's 10pounds.
2- do not give infant or kids under 5 gumm
or candies, by chewing gumm will make the
muscle on the jaw bone bigger plus kids
don't know how to take care of their teeth
properly unless you teach them.
3- ORAL hygiene is VERY important! THE
LOOKS of the face will detemine on the
teeth inside of the mouth. if anything is
wrong with your mouth like infection at a
young age it's best if u get a surgery
done. My b/f told me that he ate a lot of
candies and had black cavities all over
and had a surgery at the age of 5/6 and
his face is very SYMMETRIC but the thing
is i think that he has TMJ because
whenever he opens his mouth i hear a
clicking sound but i didn't mention it to
him because i don't want him to stress
out.
*The 4 frontal teeth is very important
make sure that they grow evenly plus the
back of the mouth/teeth should
close,alined together it will help to
balance out the face and* ***removing the
WISDOM teeth you don't need it at ALL,
most cases it will expand the jaw line and
give it a bigger bone angled, best
solution remove it once you feel or see it
coming out, best ages would be 16yrs-20.
4-get BRACESSSSSS at a very young age is
the best becuase at that time the bone
structure is growing and by having braces
it will help the face appear my
symmetric.
I've notice that who ever has even teeth
at the top and with the bottom closing
together evenly looks more attractive then
crooked teeth. people and kids who had
braces looks more attractive then others.
Now i am going through braces and loving
it so far it has been a yr and a qrtr, my
teeth looks a lot better but i still
notice that my jawline is still very
uneven especailly when i ly down and that
left side jaw corner the big bone is still
there, i guess my bone feature facial
stopped growing. BOO HOO
p.s. My Face looks abite more attractive
now that i have braces.
Guys i could relate to you, all of you!..
Btw Has any of you tried looking at
themselves from a distance? like standing
infront of a mirror and looking from a
good distance? God are the asymmetries
obvious! :/ It's weird cause.. when i get
close to the mirror not top close but
looking from a reasonable distance it's
kind of better... lol
Umm.. also for people who are considering
surgey, I don't know how bad your
asymmetries are.. but how can you be sure
you'll be happy with the result? sometimes
i wonder if i decided to go through
surgery.. And if i eneded up with a
symmetrical face which i doubt, Will i be
happy with my new face? I know i love my
current one! lol.. Sometimes i hate it
like all of you and it's hard.. other
times I love it!.. If we were born with
symmetrical faces will they actually look
better? or just normal.. but ugly? cause
I'm beginning to believe that those
asymmetries do not necesserily turn you to
an 'ugly' person.. they might make you
look a bit different, true.. but Is it
really a bad thing? I still face problems
accepting how i look somtimes, I try so
hard not to obsess over it but I am a
natural perfectionist And It kills me
lol. Sometimes it's hard to get through
the day.. especially if you receive a
comment from someone about your face.. I
don't know..but i think to fix this
problem we'd probably need a
'psychological' solution.. not a a
surgical one;) Dealing with how you feel,
gaining self-confidence, learning how to
accept yourself the way you are and LOVE
It might be the answer.. And I'm still
trying to learn that..
noticing my asymmetries made me a better
person in a way and I'm proud of that! now
when i see people and notice that there's
something off about them it never bothers
me or draws me away i can STILL see the
beautiful things in that person, his
personality... even beautiful things in
their facial features, because that's how
I'd like to be seen! Aaand thanks all for
sharing your stories hehe;p
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japer
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Posted: 10-17-08 01:30am
i think the same way.
i dont know if this asymmetry makes my
face look ugly, but it just looks weird. i
mean, seeing everybody else with normal
symmetric faces, and then looking mine at
the mirror just makes me feel like a
freak.
the truth is i've been trying to get over
this issue but i can't and i don't know
what to do about it.
there are days in which i forget about my
asymmetry, but other days like today i get
really depressed and spend the whole day
thinking that this isn't fair and that my
life would be better with a symmetric
face.
i guess i'm pretty messed up :p
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hpnotiq1
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Posted: 10-19-08 13:31pm
Why not go to a facial surgeon?
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MichaelUK
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Posted: 10-20-08 10:17am
japer
wrote:
i think the same way.
i dont know if this asymmetry makes my
face look ugly, but it just looks weird. i
mean, seeing everybody else with normal
symmetric faces, and then looking mine at
the mirror just makes me feel like a
freak.
the truth is i've been trying to get over
this issue but i can't and i don't know
what to do about it.
there are days in which i forget about my
asymmetry, but other days like today i get
really depressed and spend the whole day
thinking that this isn't fair and that my
life would be better with a symmetric
face.
i guess i'm pretty messed up
:p
I feel exactly the same, so I know just
what you're going through.
There is no easy way to deal with it. I
refuse to let it stop me doing things in
my life that I want though.
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Meli777
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Posted: 11-24-08 01:03am
ts funny and encouraging that there are so
many people like me out there!
I have been studying this phenomenom for
quite some time because I found very weird
how I seemed like a totally different and
uglier person in pictures and between two
mirrors than what I looked like in a
normal mirror.
I want to share what I have found in my
"experiments".
One day I took a video camera and recorded
a close up of my face, then, I recorded a
close up of myself through a mirror. When
I looked at the recording, the image I
took through the mirror looked very
similar to what Im used to see everyday...
that could sound obvious because its the
reversed image, but I wanted an opinion of
someone else, so I showed the recording to
my cousin, who laughed histerically at the
recording and told me that I looked
nothing like the first image (the one I
recorded normally) and that my real looks
(to her) were the ones recorded through
the mirror (to my relief!). That proved
that people perceive us just the same way
we look in the mirror normally, not
between the two mirrors.
I also took a regular pic.. the usual pic
that I hate... in which I look horrible,
asymmetrical and such and mirrored it in
Photoshop, AND! I still looked horrible
and asymmetrical.
I took myself pictures through the mirror
and I looked more similar in them than
what I look like through the mirror. I
also mirrored those images in Photoshop,
and I don't look horrible and
asymmetrical.
Something else happened one day... I was
washing my face in the bathroom and my dad
came in, I happened to look at him through
the mirror and was surprised to see his
face was totally deformed! his nose was
absolutely crooked to one side and his jaw
and lips also. I asked him to look at
himself through two mirrors opposing each
other and asked him how he perceived
himself... he told me his face was totally
crooked, specially his nose, but he didnt
see himself like that in real life. I
don't see him that way either... only when
i look at him through the mirror.
I asked him to look at me through the
mirror. He laughed and told me I looked
kinda crooked also, but that I didn't look
like that in real life!!
I guess that those experiments prove to me
that it doesnt depend on what has been
discussed before... that we dont perceive
our assymetry because we see an inverted
image of ourselves through the mirror and
we are used to it and blah blah. If that
was the case, the moment we inverted the
images in Photoshop, we would notice the
differences, but that was not the case. It
is about something else I still don't
understand, but I want to assure you all,
that what you see in the mirror everyday
is what is real. Not the inverted version
of you through the two mirrors, that only
accentuates the assymetry, but its not
what people see at all!!!
I want to suggest you do with someone the
excercise i did with my dad. Look at
someone through the mirror. They wont look
the same way they look to you in real life
(unless they are very very symmetrical).
Ask them to see you through the mirror...
they will tell you you look crooked (just
as some of you here have shared) but they
will also assure you that you don't look
like that in real life.
We are beautiful people!!! we really
are!!!
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spacecat652
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braces/tooth removal Posted: 11-24-08 15:55pm
i too have what would be described as an
asymmetrical face, its my right hand side.
i have come to the conclusion that it has
occured to due having a tooth pulled out
before i had braces put on, supposedly
becuase there was not enough room in my
mouth. i only had one tooth removed at the
back of my mouth, i believe it was one of
the smaller ones (not the molars). why
only one tooth was removed doesn't really
make sense to me.
have any of the rest of you had a tooth or
more removed in the upper jaw when you
were younger?
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Biani
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I had just one removed in my upper jaw
before braces too. I think it's called a
premolar?
I think that had to do a lot with
accentuating my asymmetry. In fact, i
remember when my dentist took the braces
off, she asked me to bite down, and when i
did, i had to slide my lower jaw to my
left just so i could make my upper and
lower molars touch. I didn't think much
of it back then, now i realize that can't
be good!
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oneupk
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O_O.. sorry for like writing this Posted: 12-01-08 21:26pm
Wow, i can't believe there was a forum
including people with the same problems
with me! And i thought i was the ONLY ONE.
LOL.. btw i saw some of the earlier posts
with pics and they all seemed pretty
normal. I wasn't sure if your faces were
asymmetrical at all! The left side of my
face is fatter and seems like it has
developed more muscles. I've had problems
with my teeth and couldnt chew for months
a long time ago, so i only chewed on one
side. Then a couple years later, i checked
my face out with 2 MIRRORS and it was
hideous! One side was a bit bigger and a
lil uplifted. It made my nose a bit curved
to the other side...I kept getting
compliments though! about how i look and
that im very handsome -_-... During school
a friend of mine that i practice bboying
with saw my face through the huge dance
practice mirrors on the wall, and he was
like, " Wth, is that u? u look
different.." then i stopped and went out
and got a drink -_-... ive also had a gf a
while ago, but broke up cuz of problems
with my parents and grades and stuff
-_-... anyways i heard that doing face
exercise helps even ur face out a
bit...ive tried for a bit, but dont no if
its helping...so dont try it until ur sure
it helps. ^^ and sorry for the long post.
DONT FEEL BAD! i felt bad my whole life..
but i never gave up. I just got angry and
kept up with everything else and just
danced it off and chilled with friends! u
have to accept urself for who u are and
dont let ur life go to waste just cuz of a
stupid thing like this. You've got more
important things to care about than just
physical appearances.