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Q: Am I to Young to Have Sex?
asked by: shaynea on April 16th, 2006
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Ok heres tjhe deal I am 15 and I am so inlove with my bf samuel he is like so nice to me. He was a virgin until we started dating. Hes 16 and im 15 are we to young to have sex even though we know we are going to be together fore :shock: ver?
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sandyallen
replied on April 16th, 2006
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Yes but that is my opinion, will you accept it or will you have sex anyway. If you do not accept my opinion will you at least use safe sex, please!
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linlin
replied on April 17th, 2006
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Yeh I think you are too. I only lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago and im 20 in 4 months!... However it was a major deal for me... And I knew my bf was the "one" because of the experience with other people.. That didnt feel the same.... Just always think thatll be with you for the rest of your life.. Dont regret it, enjoy it.
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Kia
replied on April 17th, 2006
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If you're going to be together forever then surely there is no rush?

My opinion is that if you have to ask if you are too young then the answer is definately - yes you are too young.
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*Felix
replied on April 17th, 2006
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Well, firstly - fifteen is illegal in most places so by law... Yes you are. However if you have come posting on here about it then there is *something* holding you back and it probably would be best to go into any sexual relationship knowing you are a hundred and ten percent ready.

Ok so I was never very good at maths, but you get my gist.
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jen1604
replied on April 17th, 2006
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Hi.Like the person above who posted said-whats the rush?Atleast youre being mature and thinking it through though.But if you are going to be together forever what difference is waiting a year until its legal going to make?
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Moo
replied on April 17th, 2006
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I lost my virginity to the guy I thought i'd be with forever at 15 and I wish we'd waited. We were together for three years following that but we rushed into having a sexual relationship too young.
Imo 15 is too young. I'm pleased you're thinking about this beforehand.
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n0rthernbelle
replied on April 17th, 2006
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If you have to ask whether you're too young, you probably are. You won't question it when it feels right.
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sandyallen
replied on April 17th, 2006
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I was just going to add the same thing .Kia_breizzze and rasuyoung, if you have to ask then yes, you are definitely too young also. Wait until the time is right and think of safe sex when you do.
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mariana
replied on April 17th, 2006
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I agree with everyone else - if you are asking if you're too young, then yes, you are. Also, please remember that most high school couples do not stay together. You may think you are in love and going to stay together forever, but many couples believe this - even adults - only to find that a few months or years later, it's not going to work. The divorce rate in the us is 50%! That says a lot.

However, your post made me believe that you two have already had sex ("he was a virgin until we started dating.") if that is the case, and you decide you do not want to have sex again, that is absolutely your choice! If your boyfriend throws any crap at you like, "but we already had sex, why can't we again? Don't you love me? Don't you like sex?" then he is not respecting your decision! Just because you have had sex already does not mean that you have to in the future.
And if you do have sex or already are, please use protection: birth control pills or other method, and condoms, since you two are young (i don't mean to be a pessimist, but young people who become sexually active are more likely to get stds).
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ashleighgurl
replied on April 19th, 2006
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If you have to ask other people whether we think you are too young or not, then I think you aren't ready.
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