Am I to Young to Have Sex? Posted: 04-16-06 21:56pm
Ok heres tjhe deal I am 15 and I am so
inlove with my bf samuel he is like so
nice to me. He was a virgin until we
started dating. Hes 16 and im 15 are we
to young to have sex even though we know
we are going to be together fore :shock:
ver?
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 04-16-06 22:04pm
Yes but that is my opinion, will you
accept it or will you have sex anyway.
If you do not accept my opinion will you
at least use safe sex, please!
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linlin
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Joined: 01 Apr 2006 Posts: 80 Location: uk
Posted: 04-17-06 04:49am
Yeh I think you are too. I only lost my
virginity about 2 weeks ago and im 20 in 4
months!... However it was a major deal
for me... And I knew my bf was the "one"
because of the experience with other
people.. That didnt feel the same....
Just always think thatll be with you for
the rest of your life.. Dont regret it,
enjoy it.
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 04-17-06 04:51am
If you're going to be together forever
then surely there is no rush?
My opinion is that if you have to ask if
you are too young then the answer is
definately - yes you are too young.
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*Felix
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Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 9 Location: UK
Posted: 04-17-06 05:15am
Well, firstly - fifteen is illegal in most
places so by law... Yes you are. However
if you have come posting on here about it
then there is *something* holding you back
and it probably would be best to go into
any sexual relationship knowing you are a
hundred and ten percent ready.
Ok so I was never very good at maths, but
you get my gist.
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jen1604
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Joined: 04 Apr 2006 Posts: 9 Location: UK
Posted: 04-17-06 05:16am
Hi.Like the person above who posted
said-whats the rush?Atleast youre being
mature and thinking it through though.But
if you are going to be together forever
what difference is waiting a year until
its legal going to make?
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Moo
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Posted: 04-17-06 17:20pm
I lost my virginity to the guy I thought
i'd be with forever at 15 and I wish we'd
waited. We were together for three years
following that but we rushed into having a
sexual relationship too young.
Imo 15 is too young. I'm pleased
you're thinking about this beforehand.
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rasuyoung
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Posted: 04-17-06 18:07pm
If you have to ask whether you're too
young, you probably are. You won't
question it when it feels right.
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 04-17-06 18:32pm
I was just going to add the same thing
.Kia_breizzze and rasuyoung, if you have
to ask then yes, you are definitely too
young also. Wait until the time is right
and think of safe sex when you do.
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mariana
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Joined: 16 Jan 2006 Posts: 79
Posted: 04-17-06 19:16pm
I agree with everyone else - if you are
asking if you're too young, then yes, you
are. Also, please remember that most high
school couples do not stay together. You
may think you are in love and going to
stay together forever, but many couples
believe this - even adults - only to find
that a few months or years later, it's not
going to work. The divorce rate in the us
is 50%! That says a lot.
However, your post made me believe that
you two have already had sex ("he was a
virgin until we started dating.") if that
is the case, and you decide you do not
want to have sex again, that is absolutely
your choice! If your boyfriend throws any
crap at you like, "but we already had sex,
why can't we again? Don't you love me?
Don't you like sex?" then he is not
respecting your decision! Just because
you have had sex already does not mean
that you have to in the future.
And if you do have sex or already are,
please use protection: birth control pills
or other method, and condoms, since you
two are young (i don't mean to be a
pessimist, but young people who become
sexually active are more likely to get
stds).
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ashleighgurl
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Joined: 29 Mar 2006 Posts: 23
Posted: 04-19-06 12:42pm
If you have to ask other people whether we
think you are too young or not, then I
think you aren't ready.
