Maybe you should re-read the post.
You made a post, I replied, then you deleted said post so...
I ask why you deleted your post and asked if you had lied or something in it to cause you to delete, what had been a perfectly reasonable post. Had until that point been the only post you had made that wasn't related to digging up past drama's!
I did not call you a liar - I merely made an enquiry.
As for seeking help - I think you will find that I have gone out of my way to help you find a possible solution - frankly from the limited amount of information you provided at first it was not possible to surmise an answer.
Unfortunatley, I failed psychic ed at school and have to make do the old fashioned way by asking questions to eliminate other causes.
I'm sorry if my answer is not what you want to hear.
However, I am a long time member of this community and I shall choose where to post.
Also no-one is going to be able to give you an answer unless you provide a bit more info.
See questions in above post for an idea of where to begin.