Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
I Really Need Ur Help!!! Posted: 04-12-06 11:31am
Im 13 weeks pregnant, and well I have been
with my bf 3years he is not suporting me
in this pregnancy, the whole thing has
been stressful upsetting,, he wants me to
have an abortion, if I dont he wants
nothing to do with me:( I had to go for
scan 2weeks ago, as I was spot bleeding
thet did an internal scan, n I saw my
baby, this has made the situation so much
harder as I saw my babys heartbeat, me and
my bf are both 19years old. Im 20 in
october this year. I just feel like I
have to go through with this abortion to
make him happy. Cause I do want holidays
and fun we both dont av a house, but he is
a engneer. And I work aswell. I know we
could both make this work, but he refuses.
I have my name on the list for abortion.
But to tell u the truth I havent ever been
in hospital. Im so scared of the
injection to put u sleep.. I jus have
major phobia of hospitals.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 04-12-06 13:17pm
It is never a good idea to have an
aboriton "just because a man tells you
to", but you also have to live with the
consequences of being a single mom on
child support etc....
You have to do whats right for you, but a
baby does deserve a good stable upbringing
with financial stability.
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sandyallen
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Posted: 04-12-06 18:07pm
It is your choice and your's alone, just
like it is your body, don't allow anyone
to tell you what to do. He obviously
does not care about you so if it was me I
would say that it is time to move on
without him. Stress is not good
especially being pregnant, if you cannot
afford to support yourself their are
places to go for you and the baby-to be.
We are here ffor you!
The best to you!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-12-06 22:30pm
Check out my resonse on the other topic
you posted in!
Basically, make the desicion for yourself,
and it's not fair for him to want to
control your body.
