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Q: I Really Need Ur Help!!!
asked by: jaime_elms on April 12th, 2006
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Im 13 weeks pregnant, and well I have been with my bf 3years he is not suporting me in this pregnancy, the whole thing has been stressful upsetting,, he wants me to have an abortion, if I dont he wants nothing to do with me:( I had to go for scan 2weeks ago, as I was spot bleeding thet did an internal scan, n I saw my baby, this has made the situation so much harder as I saw my babys heartbeat, me and my bf are both 19years old. Im 20 in october this year. I just feel like I have to go through with this abortion to make him happy. Cause I do want holidays and fun we both dont av a house, but he is a engneer. And I work aswell. I know we could both make this work, but he refuses. I have my name on the list for abortion. But to tell u the truth I havent ever been in hospital. Im so scared of the injection to put u sleep.. I jus have major phobia of hospitals.
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Carifairy
replied on April 12th, 2006
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It is never a good idea to have an aboriton "just because a man tells you to", but you also have to live with the consequences of being a single mom on child support etc....

You have to do whats right for you, but a baby does deserve a good stable upbringing with financial stability.
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sandyallen
replied on April 12th, 2006
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It is your choice and your's alone, just like it is your body, don't allow anyone to tell you what to do. He obviously does not care about you so if it was me I would say that it is time to move on without him. Stress is not good especially being pregnant, if you cannot afford to support yourself their are places to go for you and the baby-to be. We are here ffor you!
The best to you!
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Tylanas
replied on April 12th, 2006
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Check out my resonse on the other topic you posted in!

Basically, make the desicion for yourself, and it's not fair for him to want to control your body.
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