You must accept it's uncurable, in my case this took 10 years to accept, maybe your a quicker learner than me and it might take you 3 years. All the eye-washes, shampoos, sodium bicarbonates have a good effect for 2 hours only. But any good they do damages the tear-film and you get dry-eye, gritty eye flareup. The good tear film is what you are really after. But you will not get a good tear film because the BLEPH prevents it.
It's ironic but just washing your eyelids in hot water lightly is about the best you can do. Somedays the result is good, other days it doesn't appear to have done much good and you get depressed over it. Right now I'm experimenting with 1/2 glass of hot water, add a pinch of sodium bicarbonate, add one dispesible ASPIRIN tablet [to reduce the inflammation] and add a teaspoonful of honey, stir well, and use it as an eye-wash. It seems to give 6 hours relief, thats 6 hours to read or watch TV, but when you waken in the morning MR BLEPHS been during the night, and your lid movements are acute, painful, and not good. I've tried all the Drs tabs, all no use, Doxycillan scores 2, the rest zilch. You might develop facial tics and you need tranqulisers to steady your facial nerves. I had my tear ducts sealed to save tears, this I will recommend, ignore your Drs advice about tears streaming down your face - they don't, the relief score here is 8. Thats a very big 8. in a world of 1 and 2. I would suggest you drink i tablespoonful of cod liver oil a day, it seems to be both anti-flam and some of the oil gets on your eyeballs. This scores 5 / maybe 6. I tried Coconut oil, and linseed oil with poor results. CoCoNUT oil might be the answer and might be worth using. in the Pacific they drink the stuff. I would like my tear glands [not the ducts] squeezed clean but am told it cannot be done. My post is honest, and truthful. Bob .