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Bridget

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Posted: 04-11-06 11:28am

I'm 11 weeks today and lately (just the past few days or so) I haven't been feeling pregnant at all. I'm not sick anymore and i'm not peeing nearly as much as I was. I used to get up 6 times a night to pee and for the past few days i've only gotten up once or twice. My boobs don't hurt, but they never really did. I had a horrible dream last night that I was bleeding everywhere. I heard the heartbeat at 9 weeks and I felt so relieved after that but lately my fears are creeping up on me again. I had a miscarriage last year at 13 weeks (but the baby had died at 8). Am I just being paranoid? Do symptoms kind of go away towards the 2nd trimester? I do feel pressure in my abdomen every now and again. I'm just scared and my next appointment isn't for 3 more weeks. :(
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Posted: 04-11-06 11:35am

Well, since no one believes im pregnant--this prolly wont help.

But this did happen for me--and at the time-- for many of the girls who were approx as far along as I was. I got a word from .God first on it---so I wouldnt have doubt about my little one. But many came and discussed the slowing down of symptoms, or not noticing any at about that far along. When they had noticed much symptoms before this. I dont remember exactly what weeks--but I was not the only one to experience this.
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Posted: 04-11-06 11:38am

Well, since you had a miscarriage, it's really hard to say 'everything will be perfect and nothing will go wrong.' i'm sooo sorry about your loss and don't blame yourself. It was nothing you did. More than likely, something was chrosomically wrong with the baby.

Has your .Dr shown any concern with your pregnancy this time? It's gonna be hard to stay calm during this pregnancy because of the incredible fear that you have. Being paranoid isn't going to hurt your baby though.

I never felt pregnant. I was never vomiting, just nausious for a couple of weeks. My nipple soreness did fade in and out and it made me shake in my boots because I had read that fading symptoms aren't a good sign. But I learned a lesson, never rely on the internet to tell you if something is wrong. I got soooo nervous after going to a couple of web sites. Just call your .Dr and if he/she is concerned with your fading symptoms, they will prob. Call you in.

The reason why you're not peeing as much anymore is prob. Because your uterus is starting to move up off of your bladder. Don't worry...It'll come back!!

I'm 37 weeks and just now getting over my paranioa. From months 2-5 I was sooo nervoud when I went to the .Dr fearing that they wouldn't be able to find the heartbeat. But every time, she was there. I've gotten into 2 wrecks(one in the very beginning & one about 2 weeks ago) , fell off a chair and got gut punched at 6 months, and bit the dust about 3 weeks ago!! You wanna talk about paranoid?!!?!?!? Lmao....

I hope that everything goes awesome, i'm sure it will though...

Sarah
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Posted: 04-11-06 11:50am

Holy cow sarah!! Your baby is gonna come out ready for a fight after being banged up!! You poor girl! I'm glad you and the baby are good tho. When I was between 2-4 weeks I was camping and slipped on the edge of the pond and fell flat on my stomach and it hurt like you wouldn't believe. That was before it was confirmed I was pregnant. I had my suspicions at that time, but hadn't tested yet. But all is well and my baby turned 4 weeks old yesterday. I feel like I have insomnia now lol. I'm waiting for the moment to come that she can have cereal....Then they sometimes sleep through the night. :)

i<3mybostonterrier....I didn't really have many symptoms (that I can remember) what I remember is I had sore boobs and peed a lot. My symptoms did fade for awhile, then I got more later on in my pregnancy. I've heard after 13 weeks the chances of miscarriage go down, and you heard the heartbeat at 9 weeks, so you have passed the 8 week mark when it happened before...So take care of yourself and hang in there!
I was scared to go to my appointments because I was afraid of them not finding a heartbeat, even tho I could feel her moving. Good luck!
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Posted: 04-11-06 12:28pm

Thanks girls! I just can't wait until I can feel the baby moving every day. That's gotta be reassuring!
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Posted: 04-11-06 12:36pm

You still get a little noided sometimes, even when you can feel them moving around all day every day.
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Posted: 04-11-06 12:58pm

Oh yes...I'm .Rh(-) and had to have a .Rhogam shot a couple of weeks ago. But before that, I swore up and down that my blood cells had already began to attack my babies!!! I was crying and was feeling my baby move while I was crying.

I know..She's gonna be pissed off at me!! My .Dr was like get this girl a stroller, she's safer on the outside than inside!!! The falling was undoubtedly because my center of gravity is waaaay off!! But the wrecks, damn those people!!!

Pregnancy is unlike anything i've ever experienced. And it all happens soooo quickly!!!!

Sarah
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Posted: 04-11-06 23:35pm

Sarah, I was rh negative too. And if the baby is positive, you need to get *another* shot within 72 hours after the baby is born. I had to get that extra shot because my daughter (it feels so weird saying that!) was positive. That way it protects any future pregnancies. I think that's how it works anyways.
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Re: Paranoid...
Posted: 04-11-06 23:49pm

iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
i'm 11 weeks today and lately (just the past few days or so) I haven't been feeling pregnant at all. I'm not sick anymore and i'm not peeing nearly as much as I was. I used to get up 6 times a night to pee and for the past few days i've only gotten up once or twice. My boobs don't hurt, but they never really did. I had a horrible dream last night that I was bleeding everywhere. I heard the heartbeat at 9 weeks and I felt so relieved after that but lately my fears are creeping up on me again. I had a miscarriage last year at 13 weeks (but the baby had died at 8). Am I just being paranoid? Do symptoms kind of go away towards the 2nd trimester? I do feel pressure in my abdomen every now and again. I'm just scared and my next appointment isn't for 3 more weeks. :(
i always had my up's and down's during my pregnancy sometimes I would feel pregnant and sometimes I would be panicking about it ...Asking omg do you think somethings wrong...So I think its normal that you feel this way ...Its just one of those that goes on during pregnancy...But considering you've had miscarriage before im sure your more scared than I ever was...I just tried to tell myself everything was okay ...Um maybe you could ask you doctor for a app just to check up on things to make you feel better...But about the dreams..I had horrible dreams all the time about jace coming out deformed or dead ...I think its just another weird thing that comes with being pregnant..After I had him they have went away..So you can look forward to that..Lol :wink:
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Posted: 04-12-06 06:51am

I've had the deformed dreams too. I think it's your brains way of preparing you in case your baby doesn't come out looking the way you expected him too. You know like it shows you the worst so that if he comes out with brown eyes and you were hoping for green then you're just so greatful he looks nothing like your dream that you don't even notice.
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Posted: 04-12-06 08:33am

hopefulmjz wrote:
sarah, I was rh negative too. And if the baby is positive, you need to get *another* shot within 72 hours after the baby is born. I had to get that extra shot because my daughter (it feels so weird saying that!) was positive. That way it protects any future pregnancies. I think that's how it works anyways.



i know it!! Doesn't that suck!??! My mom got lucky because I was negative. I hope my angel is negative too so I don't have to get another needle!!! Ouch!!

Sarah
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Posted: 04-12-06 11:15am

Yeah, I hate needles....But at the doctors office the nurse that did it was great. But then in the hospital when I had to get the other shot after the baby was born she just nailed me with the needle. Not gentle and no warning. I didn't like that nurse at all!
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Re: Paranoid...
Posted: 04-12-06 11:34am

iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
i'm 11 weeks today and lately (just the past few days or so) I haven't been feeling pregnant at all. I'm not sick anymore and i'm not peeing nearly as much as I was. I used to get up 6 times a night to pee and for the past few days i've only gotten up once or twice. My boobs don't hurt, but they never really did. I had a horrible dream last night that I was bleeding everywhere. I heard the heartbeat at 9 weeks and I felt so relieved after that but lately my fears are creeping up on me again. I had a miscarriage last year at 13 weeks (but the baby had died at 8). Am I just being paranoid? Do symptoms kind of go away towards the 2nd trimester? I do feel pressure in my abdomen every now and again. I'm just scared and my next appointment isn't for 3 more weeks. :(

express your concern to your doctor! If you can't get in, see if you can speak with him/her.

I went through the same thing as you. I'll probably be just as paranoid the next time around!
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Posted: 04-13-06 13:00pm

babymajic0506 wrote:
i'm 37 weeks and just now getting over my paranioa. From months 2-5 I was sooo nervoud when I went to the .Dr fearing that they wouldn't be able to find the heartbeat. But every time, she was there. I've gotten into 2 wrecks(one in the very beginning & one about 2 weeks ago) , fell off a chair and got gut punched at 6 months, and bit the dust about 3 weeks ago!! You wanna talk about paranoid?!!?!?!? Lmao. . . .


omg girl thats crazy! I'm glad you and the baby are fine cause I would be paranoid too!
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