Breast Feeding

Okay why do you even bother allie..C'mon you have already went out again..Like we said once you do it..Your just going to turn it into an every weekend kind of thing...If you dont want to look like a immature unfit mom ..Stop talking about the crap...You are a mother now so yeah we are going to bash you for what your doing to yourself and your son!...God please grow up ..For your sons sake!

Im not really into that kind of thing lol

so u went and got drunk 2 weekends in a row, hmm? Yuck lol

Allie is a sh*tty mom.

All the way.

Yuck? Lol you havent tried it yet...Well its fun anyways ;)

Allie I thought you said this was only gonna happen once


but its been once a week it looks like

and you said you got wasted, so obviously lucas was at the sitters alllll night again right? I dont think thats right.

Ok im not even going to bother :roll:

Never mind, for once im just going to keep my mouth shut lol

I personally think it's great. Lucas is probably way way better off with the sitter. And in the long run, he'll be calling that sitter mom. It's good. Psuedo-adoption. :-)

Omg yall are taking this to far how many moms go out every night and party and still have kids? Shes gone 2 times geez she is young and just cuz yall were born to b a mommy doesnt make allie a bad mom. She made a mistake with waiting to go to the doc and yall are dwelling on it that obviously isnt helping. Babysitters are there for a reason- for ppl who have no one else. She new at this and needs a break at least shes not taking him with her or caring for him while drunk. Maybe yall dont remember what its like to party and hang out some ppl need that escape

i used to take macy to my inlaws and I know they smoke pot I guess im a horrible mom now 2 huh? I would still take both my babies there now if I could. (they dont smoke when they are babysitting) if I had a babysitter id go to a party I miss interacting with ppl. Are moms who take thier kids to daycare bad? Cuz ive heard more bad things about daycare than babysitters.

Sorry, I don't get off on this newbie parenting where it's ok to be irresponsible. What can I say? I'm old. I believe in concepts like self-control, discipline and respect for your child. If you want a break that's cool, sure we all do. But there are safer, more mature and more responsible ways to take a break then getting sh*tfaced at parties. And anyone who thinks that there isn't, is too immature to have children.

Not to mention, it's not a break when it becomes a weekly thing. It's you showing your immaturity and lack of ability to care for a baby unless it's convenient for you. Doesn't work like that.

Plenty of parents still go out to clubs and parties, its weird some women here are paranoid and think it makes me a bad mother to do that stuff. I know im not the only mother on here who goes out partying either. Hunter I used a breast pump during the week so I had enough for 24 hours. Which is how long you're supposed to not breastfeed for after drinking.

Yea in the other topic I said I hadnt read the whole sitter deal I would haveinvestigated it more but she was obviously nice if allie took him back there and as for sex ew I want nothing to do with that for a while so I think thats weird and drugs while u r nursing are bad but fro what I read sounds like she was only drinking others were doing drugs and u said something about her "making" him sleep all day, I dunno what kinda kid u had but thats all mine did at that age ne ways

Good shush! You make dumb comments -all mothers love and care about their kids.

Actually a lot don't. And you can talk a good game but if you don't walk the walk, it means nothing. Love comes through in every action you make, every decision you make. Not just in the diapers you change in between parties. When was the last time you said anything good about your son? Made a post about him? Bragged about something he did? Never. The only posts i've seen from you are ones where you basically brag about being able to find a sitter so you can go and get drunk and made equally bad choices during your pregnancy. The ones where you resent every single thing about him because it impedes your ability to be a normal teen like your friends.

If I ever saw my mother acting like that, or even knew she had in the past, I would be so embarassed and ashamed. If I ever saw one of my parent friends acting stupid drunk and making a fool out of herself, I wouldn't want to hang out with her and I would feel embarassed for her child. You have no respect for your child and that is sad. Mother should strive to provide a good healthy example 24/7/365....Not just 15/5/317 and take the weekends off to do whatever you want wherever to whoever.