Good Lord My Life Is a Mess Posted: 04-10-06 21:11pm
I married a man I love very much and moved
to south american to live with him.I have
3 children from my first marriage my first
husband can not accecpt I do not want to
be with him,although I do love him dearly
but not has a husband or lover.
My x husband has my 3 children my house
and I pay him 800 a month for the
children.
I have bi polar and feel my children are
so much better with their father although
I miss and love them very much.
I feel I am a bad person because I dont
want to go back to my x husband but that
would be the only way I could be with my
children.My children dont want to live
with me however they sem to want me to go
back and live with their dad.
You think your life is messed up lol
welcome to mine.
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Spirit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 388 Location: Canada
Posted: 04-11-06 06:15am
Your not a bad person, just a mixed up
person. Unless your children are adult
age there's no excuse for emotionally
abandoning them. They need their mom, if
not in the same household, very close
by...To visit and share their lives
with.
That's part of what's going on in my
life...I have children and my bf has
children from previous relationships.
Sometimes he blows me off cause he has to
spend time with them....And this is more
than okay with me....I won't respect him
otherwise. I feel you cannot make
children and then say"okay fend for
yourself". My ex is there in body, but
very emotionally neglectful....And i'll
have absolutely nothing to do with anyone
who doesn't fulfill their duty,
responsibility and gifts from above. You
may think they are in good hands with your
ex, but he's the dad....Kids need their
mom.......I'm 43 and I still want my
mommy. :)
