Ok ive looked at the charts u guys advised me to look at concerning ovluation and fertility. The first day of my period was march 30 with a 28 day cycle that would make my most fertile days the 9th through the 14th right? I may be wrongits taking a bit for me to understand it. Anyway we bd the ninth and will tonite and we need to til the 14th? Right if anyone knows let me know thanks! By the way you guys are very helpful ive tried other boards and none of them are quite like this one. Everyoneis very insightful here and doesnt make me feel foolish for asking questions that im a little bashful to ask. Also yall support eachother and you know eachothers family names and stuff that is very comforting to someone like me who doesnt have any friends thats moved from a big city to a small hick town so thanks