I have just learned to accept it. I have found the more I mention anything about him playing then the angrier he will become, so best just not mention anything at least in my marriage. I rather deal than get into a war cause he feels I am taking his hoibbies away, or trying to control his life both of which I have been accused of trying to do, or doing.

uhmmmm.... Let's make it easy he values videogame marathons over you...And your marriage that he took part of? *no*!! My ex used to do that all the time..And like the other post on this topic- I did learn to accept it. But- when that affects your entire relationship with that guy....Then whats the point? Why be sad? Why allow him to be so damn selfish??

If he cares.... He'll at least cut the time down and compremise!! But if he's not willing at all....Period? Then adios! Or do to him...Get a new hobby and not involve him. See if he notices. Perhaps too- you will meet someone better in the process.... Leave this boy to his toy!!

Good luck-

-red-