Well I wish you the best of luck. I find it very comendable (sp) that you are doing what is best for this child. Have you found the adoptive parents yet? Are you doing an open or closed adoption.

I have not yet chosen the adoptive parents, but I am looking at profiles. I am hoping for a semi-open adoption.

Isn't semi-adoption when you can still be invoved in your child life? I think thats cool!

Well good luck on your decision..Also glad that you chose whats right for the baby!!! You are very strong and loving person

I only just found out im pregnant today but I might be considering adoption I have quite a while to go but I think it seems like the right choice

I am in awe of anyone who is strong enough to go through with adoption. Well done, good luck :)

What if you all decide you want to give the baby up for adoption but in closer to the end want to keep it? Will you still go with the adoption?

The only thing I can say is that I will have to cross that bridge if I come to it. Right now, I am pretty certain in my decision and both of my parents and my b/f support me in thise decision, too.

I agree, when it comes ill see how I feel then, I still have at least 7 months to think about it lol

I gave my daughter up for adoption when I was 15, I still see my daughter often & think adoption is a wonderful thing, as I gave her to a woman who wasn't able to have children.

I won't regret it, and i'm sure you won't either.

Goodluck.

My mom wanted my sisters to give their babies up but they wouldn't.I'm glad they didn't cause I could not see mt life without them,i love em to death! Good luck on any decision you make and keep up updated!

Yeah I have been thinking about adoption, what is semi adoption then, I mean so the child can still come see u? Im only 12weeks pregnant, abortion or adoption. Im not quite sure

Im quite scared that maybe, when see the baby, I wont wanna let go.

Yes thats what im worried about as well
although an adoption isnt certain for me yet

But my bf been person, says I either get abortion, or we over, so thought I dont wanna lose him, so maybe adoption wud be good,

There are basically 3 kinds of adoption: open, semi-open and closed. In an open adoption, you can have as much contact as you want, including visits. In a semi-open, you get letters and pictures and meet them before the baby is born. In a closed adoption, you don't meet them at all or have any contact. I think adoption is a much better choice than abortion with a lot fewer regrets.

Oh okay, dosnt baby have stay with u, up 2 6weeks
before u can give them up for adoption

I am :) ..I just made my decision recently with the help of dalicialynn haha. I was a little bit unsure but after asking and hearing how great her experience is I think it would be perfect for me..I'm still pretty excited though cause I know that no matter what ill still be a mom now and my baby will have a great life wherever he/she goes. On another note...I have a dr's appt next week just to check up and ill be 19 weeks..Will they be able to tell the sex yet? Haha.

drink a ton of water before you go...And I mean a ton and i'm pretty sure they'd be able too.

I'm also really glad I helped you make that decision =)