Go to a health clinic for free and get a pregnancy test from the doctor. They're accurate. If you are pregnant, please consider carrying the baby to full term and then giving him/her up for adoption- it's not your baby's fault you made a mistake, and they shouldn't have to give their newly created life for it.

If you didn't want a baby why didn't you use protection, holy crap people like you make me sick.

This is exactly what we're all talking about here, people who use abortions as birth control, I hope you aren't pregnant :roll:

i can understand someone who was raped wanting an abortion, but for you to say you want a miscarriage is selfish and stupid! People have miscarriages all the time, or their babies die, and they don't deserve to have their babies taken from them, but here you are (wishing) you'd have one just because you weren't responsible enough to use protection.

Use your head.

Look, its her choice to want one or not, but it was her choice, plus we don't have the whole story either, we have part of it. She might want to have a miscarriage, not b/c shes selfish or stupid, but it might be she is scared and afraid that she can't support it. But to go off and ridicule someone for there own judgement its not right. Emily I hope you aren't pregnate, but if you are talk to your boyfriend and try to work something out. Thats all I can say.

Excuse me but it is selfish because she could have taken 2 seconds to slip on a damn condom, i'm sure it's not that hard.

The only part of the story that we need to know is that she had sex, without protection, and now she thinks she might be pregnant and she wants to (miscarriage) it bc she's scared and can't afford it. (notice the sarcasm) get a doing it clue, u asked for this.


If she would have just came here and said she had sex without a condom and now she thinks she might be pregnant, i'm sure people would be on her back for not using protection anyway, but it's the fact that she said she wants something bad to happen to it, when this happens everyday to women who don't deserve it, that's totally selfish.

Adoption!!! Adoption!!! Adoption!!! It's free and you even get payed for it!!!

Well look, i'm not here to start things, she just asked for advice, not criticizim

the forum is for questions and answers. Its not to put people down. Its to reassure them or just give them the truth. Not to pick and argue about one thing out of the hole post. Its her choice, she might be scared, you can't tell me you just join to give answers, you can't tell me you haven't been scared about something like this or identical to the situation. Its a forum to help people not make them feel like sh*t. People make mistakes.

No ones perfect.

haha welcome to the forum...You will soon understand why she says what she does...We seriously get tired of "stupid teens"..That come whinning because they didnt take 5 seconds to slip on a condom..Thats their own fault not ours..Duh we are going to critize them ...It gets old seeing threads that say ..Omg im 13 and me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex and he bursted in me and um like whats the chances of meh bein pregz..?? Well lets see here sweetie!!! Very likely!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Of course no ones perfect.

No I haven't ever been in this situation, and when I decide to have sex i'm going to use protection, if she would have used a condom and she was in this situation i'd be giving her advice right now, I just think its bullsh*t that she's boohooing because she might be pregnant and she wants something bad to happen to it when she made the decision, am I right or wrong?

I believe i'm right, thanks.

Ok,

look i'm not saying your wrong. But I am saying not once did I see a hint of "boohooing" in this sentence, she just told the fact or not onced asked if she is. And thank you for the welcome jillian. But stupid teens is including everyone in the forum that post something. Most teens are stupid. Some it can be a one night stand, or it can be love and it was in the moment. I dunno. But if it gets old why even post something. She never onced asked if she was pregnate. I have no reason to get into arguements in this forum. But have you ever thought some people might take it the wrong way. Instead of them actually get some kinda advice. Like, look "sweetie" you have a real good chance of getting pregnate. And if you don't next time think about putting a condom on or wait till you want kids.

Thats all i'm saying. Shes a new memeber like myself and has not boohood or asked. Shes just asking for advice.

Yeah but we also get tired of "stupid teens" coming in here saying

"i had unprotected sex but I don't want kids, i'm getting an abortion"

uhm, why have unprotected sex if you aren't ready for kids? That's just plain stupid if you ask me.


But anyway i'm not gonna argue, welcome to the forum. I'm not a b*tch people just annoy me :d

Thanks kyle for sticking up for me.
I was not boohooing as you guys call it. If your on this site then help us. Thats what we come here for isnt it? If you get tired of it leave. This is a ehealth forum. Thats what I signed up for at least.
If your here to bi*ch and moan because 'your tired of seeing it' then why read them? If you want to help be nice. Ever think of that? I wanted help. What if you said something to the wrong person and they off there selfs because you call them stupid for not using a condom. There you off'ed 2 people in one day. Good job.
People have feelings. And maybe they dont want to have kids right now maybe they made a stupid decision. If your not a kid now werent you one once? Im one and yea I made a stupid desision. Oh well. Sh*t happens. Ill finde a way with my boyfriend to fix it on my own.
Thank you kyle for sticking up for me again.

Alright well then use a condom next time!


How old are you 11? 12? Exactly, I don't know you but your decision was stupid, that's just my opinion. As I said before i'm done arguing.


And i've been here for quite some time, i'm not going to leave just because I don't like what you posted haha :roll:

Oh and by the way, you said you wanted advice, but you want an abortion? Then go to the abortion forum that's what it's there for.

Thank you brunette.

I'm glad to see some advice from ya :p well emily there ya go the abortion forum.

That I will agree on.

Lol yesssss! Finally someone agrees :p

Eh but only on this one so far.

Lol oh well, i'm gonna try to sleep now. See yaaaaaa this weekend.

I just read this. I'm actually surprised how much people here get away with. I agree that everyone's entitled to their opinions...But we shouldn't be passing judgement if we are annoyed by the number of similar posts. Just skip the ones that drive you crazy.

Just my opinion. Please don't take offense.

I personally am very happy to see that we are getting new members.
Welcome ladies! :)

Well wannababy, I like you and I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but she posted this thread knowing some people were obviously not going to like what she said, and this is a public forum and everyones entitled to their own opinions, and I guess if you don't agree with me then fine but I know there are some people here that do.


Like I said before it's just the fact that there are some people here who are dying to get pregnant, or have lost their babies recently, and then she comes in saying she had unprotected sex, thinks shes pregnant, and wants to have a miscarriage, and I just think that's messed up.