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Q: Help Me Plz

asked by: aduke00 on April 5th, 2006

Experienced User

I have been married for almost 2 yrs. My husband is 7 yrs older than me. First it started with magazines and then a certain radio station on sirius then the computer. I don't like him listening to woman having sex on the radio. I don't like to see he has been looking at bad things on the computer. I use to not mind the magazines becuz it mainly woman in there bra and underwear. But lately it has been bothering me. I feel like I am all ways nagging him to quit looking at and listening to porn. He doesn't want to have sex with me really maybe once or twice a month. First he told me he is out of the stage of his life, now he is saying he thinks he has something that is low and that makes him not want to have sex.. I don't know but I need some older and more experience women advised... Any info would help (even if you think I am being to pushy)

thanks

Replies(6)

aduke00

replied on April 5th, 2006

Experienced User

Any thoughts at all?

Morning_Glory

replied on April 5th, 2006

Experienced User

I think theres an ongoing thread about porn over on the broken hearted forum.

As for your specific situation, could your husband be going thru a mid life crisis? (you didn't say how old he is).

aduke00

replied on April 6th, 2006

Experienced User

He is 27

sandyallen

replied on April 6th, 2006

Extremely eHealthy

You can play that game too, or at least turn it on but tune it out! Maybe have a serious talk with him, act different in bed, ask him if he wants a divorce, tell him you needmore then him and his porno or whatever. Be firm! Who knows the next thing you know, he might be cheating on you and you do not deserve that you deserve better then what you are being treated like now or just start doing your own thing, join a gym, go shopping or a movie, meet people and enjoy life as it is too short to sit there and be miserable!
Good luck!
Keep us posted!

ElsaSchultz

replied on April 8th, 2006

Experienced User

Is he masturbating when he's listening to or looking at porn? If so, then that could be the problem.

He needs to go to his doctor and get checked out. It doesn't sound like what he's going through is normal (unless he's over 65).

aduke00

replied on April 8th, 2006

Experienced User

I had a talk to him about it and told him that I wasn't happy and I told him that I give up everything for him as far money, time so on. I told him that he had to put in to this marriage also and that it couldn't just be me. I told him he makes me want to do bad things and I recently got off b/c and told him that I wanted back on it becuz I didn't want to have a child with him making me feel so bad. Well he sat and listened to me talk for about 2 hours. He remove the bad programming off his radio and he told me that he would turn off the internet if it made me feel better. I told him what ever he had to do. So far its been about 3 days and he has made me feel so much better. He has told me how sorry he was and that he didn't know that it bothered me that bad. Thanks for the help girls....

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