Joined: 05 Jan 2004 Posts: 8 Location: South Carolina
43 With a Much Younger Boyfriend, Could This Be Premen. Posted: 01-05-04 02:55am
I am 43 years old and I think I am going
through a lot of changes. I first
started wanting to go to clubs and just
doing things that I know if I don't do
now, I will soon be too old to do. I
started flirting with younger guys. I
have been with 3 much younger guys.....20,
28 and 31 until my last one came along
which has moved in with me now. He is 21
years old. My son is 2 years younger than
him. Both of my children like him and
everyone gets along fine. We have a
really good relationship and I love him to
death but sometimes I feel like a pervert.
When I am with him, I feel normal, I
don't think about my age we just have fun
together but when i'm alone I start
thinking about the way it looks to others
and it really seems wierd. Could this be
a premenopause symtom or maybe just some
kind of emotional problem know that I am
getting older. I still look young
everyone thinks i'm around 32 or so but I
know that it won't be long before i'll
start showing my age and I want to have
all the fun now while I can. I'm not
interested in anyone my age. If I was, I
wouldn't worry as much about showing my
age.
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JUJU
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Sep 2005 Posts: 5 Location: uk
Me to Posted: 09-24-05 05:05am
I can understand that, I am also with a
younger man, and I also think about these
things when I am alone. People have said
to me that I am with someone younger
because I refuse to grow old. Sorry I
have not been much help, but if you are
happy then try not to worry too much at
least your family have accepted him, mine
have not.
Hugs
juju :roll:
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Dark_Allies
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2005 Posts: 14 Location: Calif
Posted: 01-08-06 14:19pm
I think age differences (as long as some
adult isn't with a child!!!) should be a
non issue. My bf is 22 years younger than
me -- so what? It all depends on how one
thinks and acts. Some men my age act as
immature as 12-year-olds and some
20-year-old men are mature, fun, all that
good stuff. You just can't judge whether
or not people are good for each other by
how old or young they are.
If two people get along, enjoy being
together and are in love or even just good
friends, more power to them!
Compatibility is the issue, not age!
Plus, it's nobody else's damn business.
