Thats messed up! I feel sorry for your kids!

Thats a bit harsh!!

How can you feel sorry for her kids? She might be an amazing mum!

It's not a persons age that dictates their mothering abilities - it's ther person they are!

I think it's going to be hard enough for me to cope and i'm 26 and 21 weeks pregnant with my first but some people mature at an early age and are simply ready alot younger.. Although 16 is a little bit young but hey who are we to judge anyone!?


I wouldn't say you're crazy although do you not think 2 is enough to deal with at the moment? Lol

Y is that messed up im married to there father weve been together form the start we planed it together my children get evrythin an are very very luved I have always wanted children from a younge age and I dont think people should critisize if they dont no the situation

just ignore her shes a follower(trying to fit in cause she messed up on being a mom) I have nothing wrong with someone who has kids I have my hands full with two its actually easier to be a mom of 3 then two cause two of them usually always keep themselves busy(i had custody of niece for awhile.)

i dont think your crazy my mom has 6 kids and shes 41, people have no life what people dont understand is mothering may be hard on some and easy on the others!! Anyways congratz on the pregnancy and if anyone angers you off just tell them off!!!

It's pretty young to have planned kids, but as long as you and your kids are all happy and comfortable I see no real problem with it.

My partner and I pretty well planned our son and I was 18 as well. Ignore allie, she has no leg to stand on to critisize anyone else's parenting....As you saw on the other post. ;-)

Thanx evry one well nearly evryone my kids are my life there the reason I get out of bed in the mornin

Well, erin I am 24 and expecting my second baby. I can't wait. However, I don't think, actually I know that I couldn't have done it at 16. I commend you for what a great job your doing. Yor babies must know that they are loved and secure in their home. That is something I long to give my little girl.

Don't let people riducule (alli) for the decision you have made bacause they seem to be the right ones for you and your family. Good luck to you.

Genipher

Congrats!!

You got you're hands full.

and everyone here feels sorry for yours.

Op- I certainly didn't plan my daughter... But I think that if you planned for, and were able to care for 1 kid at 16 and 2 at 18, you will be just fine to have one more. I'm sure you are a fantastic mom. You'll do fine.

Allie where the hell do you get off telling other people they are messed up? You messed up big time when you didn't feel lucas move, any decent mother would have gone to a doctor straight away not wait for ages. I'm sure erinjacob would have gone straight away, she seems like a decent person and a good mother.

In my books that is worse than having kids in a stable relationship even if she was young.

.A.M.E.N .Sista! Lol
but don't get too worked up about allie..I'm pretty sure she's going to see that everyones on to her unconsistant story and we'll never hear from her again (like roxie..Jasie..) (ie fake..) ..But then she'll be back with a new name and made up story...(like...Well...You know who..)

Lol im not a fake so nope im not going anywhere :wink:

3 kids by age 19 is messed up especially when she planned the first two. I dont get why some people want to become parents so bloody young, dont you want to have your own life!? Too late now anyway theres no point saying stuff to you, so goodluck I guess.

first off...You seem pretty damn fake...Your story doesn't add up at all.
Second, not everyone hates being a mother like you...So just go get drunk or something

we all know she'd rather be doing that than watching her own son. People like her shouldn't have children!

agreed..So why don't you (allie) just give up your son to someone who will actually appreciate having a kid/being a mother..Then you won't have to health forum and moan about how much it sucks to have a kid.

Oh get over it, is your life that boring you're still whinging over something that happened on friday. Damn

Is your life so boring that you have to come in here and be a fake/troll?!

what is whinging exactly?