Normal Sex Drive For a 21 Year Old Male? Posted: 04-03-06 03:21am
I am a 21 year old male and I have
recently been having some concerns
regarding my sexuality. I am still a
virgin, both because I am shy and as I
want wait for the right woman, rather than
going out purely to get laid. I
masturbate regularly (generally once a
day, occasionally twice), and used to
regularly look at porn, generally most of
the times that I masturbated. I recently
read some information about sex addiction,
and now it has made me scared. I find
myself obsessing now about whether my
sexual behaviour is normal and how it will
effect future relationships, as some of
the things that the articles say are quite
scary. Does anyone have any thoughts on
this?
For those of you who have made the
transition from single to being in a
relationship, how hard is it to give up
porn once you are getting real sex?
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awkwarddepressed
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Mar 2006 Posts: 70
Posted: 04-04-06 10:19am
Dont know how intense your love of porn
is, I mean I look at it occasionally but I
have a good imagination so I dont really
need porn to rub a few out, but you may be
pleasantly surprised like I was when my
girlfriend suggested we watch porn
together and bought us like 30 hours worth
of dvd porn to watch in bed. I think we
are both learning from it and we are like,
hey, that looks like fun, lets try that.
She said she never watched porn before
really so its kinda cool.
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ltlglo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Mar 2006 Posts: 18 Location: Boise
Posted: 04-04-06 17:29pm
When you find that someone that you can be
comfortable with then you can open up and
tell her what u like and like he said she
might be ok with it. But untill then dont
worry about it making things different
when you get a girl untill she tells you
otherwise.
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Morning_Glory
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 207 Location: NE Ohio
Posted: 04-04-06 19:33pm
If you were addicted or obssesed with sex,
you would not be waiting til you met the
right lady, you'd be out doing what you
could to get laid.
From what you've written it sounds like
you have a normal sexual appetite for your
age. The right lady is going to be lucky
to have you.
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Human
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 89
Posted: 04-06-06 05:29am
I forgot which magazine I read it in but
on average males ejaculate about 5 times a
week at that age so your absolutley fine.
Personally I think this number is low but
this statistic includes the guys that do
it once a week as well as the dudes that
do it 5 times a day so it's an average
with a very high variance.
I have exactly the same sex drive as you
and trust me your fine your not addicted
to porn/sex. In fact you'll meet some
women in your life that'll def want a lot
more doing it than that.
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midwest
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Mar 2005 Posts: 96 Location: ,
Trust Me Posted: 04-08-06 02:36am
When u feel like bustn a nut, imagine
something boring and ugly and youll last
longer in sex
