Hi have a question thats puzzling me. When you have been dating a guy for a while when does it turn into a relationship? What I mean by that is how do you know when your not just dating anymore as in my experience you don`t really get to a point when someone says will you be my girlfriend. So how do you know?

Also I get really paranoid as i`ve been dating a guy and we have a great time together, however our relationship moved to the next level, by which I mean sex. I have always been wary of this part of a relationship as I get paranoid that thats all they were interested in. However I have heard from him since so its not like hes ignored me afterwards but I don`t want to come across as paranoid and needy. So is it me just thinking too much?