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I am sooooo afraid to tell my mom. Any suggestions on how to go about it?
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PregnaJordan
replied on January 4th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
I dunno I just asked my mom "how old are u" she said 39 why? And I said , okay ur old enough to be a grandma..She freaked a little, but she is fine..Lol
jordan
edd 6/23
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kitty_55
replied on January 4th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Hey,
i know it is hard telling your mom. I would just go up to her and tell her you have something to say. Get her to sit down. And just be like I didnt get my peiord and I am scared I ma pregant( do u know forsure you are?) or you could write it in a letter telling her. I did that and it was so much easier. When I was preagnt( but I miscarried) do u have msn?
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14goingonmommy
replied on January 4th, 2004
New User
:)
Lol that's pretty funny. I'm thinking about just writing it in a letter..That way I won't exactly be around to get a hand across my face.
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kitty_55
replied on January 5th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
How old are you? The letter is the best way. Tell her everything.
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Ansleyt2004
replied on January 5th, 2004
Experienced User
Id say the letter to it was so much easier for me to thats how I told my mom I emailed her while she was at work n I was here that way if she felt mad or anything she had time to get over it before she came home to me lol.... But she was ok with it.... And I knew she would be but I was still scared to death to tell her and I thought maybe id tell her on the phone uh no scared to do that also so I said ill email her and boy it took about 30 minutes to click the send button lol and I finally clicked it not meaning to and I was like o sh*t then I signed offline n was like oh goodness then I was like ok ansley quit doing this its going to be ok so I got back on and read her reply and it wasnt bad at all she wasnt mad or anything wooh I was relieved but I dunno iguess even if you know that ur parent wont get mad or anything its still really hard to tell them as for me I felt like I had let her down.... Or sumthing but writing the email was sooo much better then telling her in person or on the phone ..... Cuz I dont think I could of done it that way.... So id def go with writing a letter lol
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missy+2
replied on January 5th, 2004
New User
Help
Dear whoever-
last month I got my period very light and only for 4 days I have never had a period like that before, it has always been every 18th for 7th days since I was in 5th grade I am now in 11th I need help could I be pregnat? Not last month but the month before we did not use protection twice. He pulled out the first time but not the second well he was a little late some got inside of me. And I also have a suggestion for the almost 14 teen year old. Go to planned parent hood you can get free tests there. I would go there but the only person who could take me is my boyfriend and I don't want him to know because if I were he would make me have it. He has also fathered a child before there is a bit of age difference but we have been together for a year and well almost 2 years now. Please help thanks missy
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HomecomingQueen2003
replied on January 5th, 2004
Active User, very eHealthy
So your saying that you don't want to tell your bf cause if your pregnant you want an abortion? Well first of all, you need a test to find out first. Secondly tell your bf if you are pregnant, its his child too!
Megan
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missy+2
replied on January 5th, 2004
New User
Re
Dear megan- I don't belive in abortions but I am afraid I did take one test an ept but it said positive. I have miscarried one child already and it was a tubular pregnacy. I don't want it to happen again. I don't want an abortion but I am afriad I wont be a good mom.
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HomecomingQueen2003
replied on January 5th, 2004
Active User, very eHealthy
Missy, I understand that your scared of another miscarriage, I had an early miscarriage myself, but if you are pregnant now, get a jump start on being a great mom! Take your pre-natals, go to your doctors, talk to your baby, etc. But first hun you need to make sure you are pregnant!
Good luck!
Megan
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missy+2
replied on January 5th, 2004
New User
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The thing is, is that I took one and well two cause two came in the box and they both showed up positive. I am scared. But in a way I want a baby and when I found out I started taking pre natel vit. Please if you have any ?S that may help me please ask. Thanks missy
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HomecomingQueen2003
replied on January 5th, 2004
Active User, very eHealthy
Well sweetie, congratulations!! You should make a doc appt. Asap! You will do just fine hun!
Megan
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Munoz1226
replied on January 5th, 2004
Experienced User
Telling mom isn't easy, but doing so is the bravest and responsible thing to do! Do it for the baby. If you are scared she will back hand you, write a letter. Write it and leave it in her car or mail it to her at work. Either way do it and I will say some prayers for you! Go for it! You will feel so much better after you do! Ask god to guide you in whatever way you decide to tell her. Good luck!
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insurancegirl
replied on January 6th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
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lilmammie
replied on January 6th, 2004
New User
Here's How
Just go and talk to your mom when ya'll are by yallself and tell her. I am 14 too! How old is your boyfriend. Mine just turned 18. I thought I was pregnant too but it was a false alarm. My friend was is pegnant she is 15. She is 6 months. My other friend was 12 when she had her first child. So you will be okay your mom will still love write me back or privaie message me. :d :d :d :d :d :d :d :d
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insurancegirl
replied on January 6th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
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sparklypixie12
replied on January 6th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
12! Oh my lord!
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Mommy_2_b
replied on January 6th, 2004
Active User, very eHealthy
12?!?! Omigoodgod! That is crazy
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Untimely Blessings
replied on January 6th, 2004
Experienced User
I know its tough telling your mom, lord knows I nearly died when I had to tell mine. Just set down right her a letter and hand it to her before you go to school. Thats what I did and by time I got home she had cooled off!
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lilmammie
replied on January 7th, 2004
New User
F.y.i.
I am from virginia and I know 12 is young I could never do that but 14goonmommy I privated messaged you already write me back bye! :d