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Q: How Long????-plz Write Bk...............
asked by: mum??? on April 2nd, 2006
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Hello,last wednesday 29.03.06 I miscarried our darling twins at about 6-7weeks in my local hospital.Anyway we are now having sex again from yesterday (unprotected of course)and we were wondering when the quickest time anyone knows about that someone has concieved again the soonest after a miscarriage....My bf keeps breaking down with tears and im very emotional but we feel its the right thing to do.We really wanted those children and now we are trying again.Does anyone know when you can concieve after a miscarriage and will we have to wait long????????????????????Thank you,jadexxxxxxxxx
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tracie
replied on April 2nd, 2006
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Hello
I had a miscarriage at the end of september and by november 6 I was pregnant again. We were being really careful though, we had a condom break. So if you are trying you might get pregnant sooner. I know that some doctors recommend waiting to let your body rest, but one of the doctor's at the office I go to told me after the d&c I could start right away if I wanted. So if you all feel you are ready than I wish you all the luck in the world. This pregnancy is going great, my daughter and son will be getting another sister sometime around august 12.

Good luck, my prayers are with you.
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mum???
replied on April 2nd, 2006
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Hello Tracie.......
Ah tracie thats wonderfull about our pregnancy,hope it all goes well im sure t will.And im sorry for your loss in september-its heartbreaking isnt it?And know one ever actualy knows what we went through unless they have been through it as well.The thing is I was never given a d&c,i miscarried the one baby into a bowl and my nurse checked over it and I was alowed home 2hours later-she said that there was no need to be sent down to thearter.But then about 2hours after being allowed home I miscarried my other baby(that we didnt even no about)anyway I worried there is stuf still in there and as that was my 1st pregnancy and im only 21 I dnt have a incredibly clue.What do u think??????Thank u for your advice so far...But as I havnt had a d&c is it ok to carry on???Would I feel something wrong by now????She said there was no need.
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tracie
replied on April 2nd, 2006
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When I had my d&c they didn't find any tissue because I had passed it two night before. They went ahead and did a d&c though to make sure. I would imagine if you passed the same thing twice, you are fine.

You are correct, no one understands what you are going through. They say they are sorry and then move on to the next topic like it was nothing. I was lucky to have my mom. She, like me, had two healthy pregnancies and then miscarried twice before getting pregnant with my older brother. So I had her to talk to and my hubby was great through it all too!

Well, again I wish you the best of luck. Let me know when you find out any good news in the future.

Have a great evening! Best of wishes!

-tracie
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mum???
replied on April 4th, 2006
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Thank you tracie I have put ur email addres in my yahoo.I,like you also had my mum even tho she has never had a miscarriage she was there through out it all and I love her so much..My bf was great too but he is still breaking down...Will email you soon,thanks again,jadexxxxxx
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tracie
replied on April 4th, 2006
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Hi
I saved your adrress! I will keep in touch as well!
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