Ask .Dalicia to pin him to a wall by his scrotum. Hell, ask anyone, we'll get a gang together. :)

seriously, though. Ditch the fecker.

He's probably terrified. Yeah, it's a caca t y thing he's done to you, but he might come around. I know you're scared, but try to hang in there. If he doesn't call you, in a few days to a week or so, i'd call him and ask him if he wants to talk. Remind him that this is his baby and it's not going to go away (unless, of course, you've decided you do want to get an abortion).

Haha, rodge. I agree, d is your girl for that. :)
okay, well...Nothing hurts me more on this forum then teenage girls who get dumped when they tell their boyfriend. It takes two, it's not only your fault!
If you have to pick between your boyfriend and your baby, I would go with the baby*. He's already proved that he's not afraid to dump you, and that doesn't seem like a very secure relationship to me.

* however, you need to make sure that you're ready for a baby before you make your decision! That's the most important thing! But please don't have an abortion or anything without thinking about your decision.

Ok hun im by myself also.. And it sucks so much.. The boy totally said wud stand by me.. But he pissed off and seriously I am much better by myself.. And I know it going to be so hard for you.. But you can do it... Just be strong.. You want this baby do not get rid of him.Her just for your ex's sake thats not the rite thing to do.. You just want to make sure you and your baby is safe... You will fine hunny
pm me if you wanna talk :)

Thank you for your advice, all of you =)

this is really hard, the father isn't even talking to me now and I can't get in touch with him. I'm also bothered about telling my mum and dad, they're gunna freak out, they're so old-fashioned. Does anyone have any advice on how I can break it to them?

Thank you again, I really appreciate your support!

Whenever I have something really big that I want to tell my family I write them loooong letters and spill out my guts lol I don't know if that's how you want to do it, but that's probably how i'd go about it, and then you could leave and give them time to cool down, and talk it over when you get home.

Hey there. Your going to be a great mother with or without him. Im in the same situation you are my boyfriend left me after I told him that I was pregnant. But that just shows that hes not responsible for his actions and he can go n f*ck himself cause me n my baby dont need him. Its hard thinking whos gunna help me raise my baby... But you can do it.. Your family n friends are there for you. I really wished my ex would just come around n help me out cause I grew up without a father and I didnt want me baby to have too.. But theres just some ppl in this world who are so immature. Well good luck with everything! :)

Thank you, I might try the writing a letter thing, it'd probably make things easier.. For me anyway! And thank you for your support whyte_kissez, it really cheered me up =)

i found out that my lovely ex spent the night with a random girl in a hotel last night, so the chances of us patching things up aren't looking good right now!

It's all really stressing me out though, surely that's not doing the baby any good.. The worst part is that i'm still in love with the b*stard.

*sigh* life can't be simple can it

Life will never be simple lmao I wish it were.

I wish I could say something to help more =/

Don't worry, I appreciate any support.. I just don't wanna feel alone right now coz it feels like I don't have anyone to turn to... My friends are supportive but they have no idea what i'm going through really and it's hard for them to understand.

I'm glad I have this forum to keep me company (wow that sounds sad) =| hehe

No believe me this forum is great support when you need it, it's not sad at all lol

i sent you a pm.

it's not sad, I am on here all the time. I have no one else to talk to except my hubby or his mother.

Ok it's not sad.. And I didn't mean to offend anyone by saying that!

*wishes i'd kept my mouth shut*

oh yeah.. I keep getting a strange taste in my mouth after I eat or drink stuff.. Is that normal? It's a bit weird, and it made my chicken noodles taste yucky! =( hehe

i'll try not to say stupid things from now on.. Although I can't promise anything =/

That's normal, honey. I had that taste my entire pregnancies. It's funny though, the minute I gave birth, it stopped.

You dont need him, he sounds like a real jerk having done that. You deserve someone who treats you better!

Thank you, i'd better get used to the taste of it then because I have another 34 weeks to go!

And I know I deserve better, but right now it doesn't feel like i'm gunna stop loving him any time soon.. We used to be really happy. He said he wanted kids in his 20s.. Well he'll be 19 and a half when the baby is born.. Not the end of the world for him in my opinion.. But he still left me to do this alone.

Hello, I'm really sorry to hear of your difficulties.

I was wondering if there is any chance I could talk to you over the phone about them? I am a journalism student at UCLan writing a feature about teenage pregancies in Preston. It's not going to be published, you dont need to reveal your identity if you dont want.

If youre interested please phone me on 07870740132 or I could phone you. It's due a week today so please let me know ASAP.

Hope to hear from you soon

Alexandra McGowan

Woah, I made this post in april 2006!

Me & the father worked things out & our little girl is 2 in a couple of weeks.. so there's a happy ending to my story!

That's great! Did you guys get married, or are you considering it now?