i'm totally into tats and piercings (although you'd never tell by looking at me) and I want my new tat done now. I can't do it (or any piercings) because my doc said that the potential risk is too high. When you are preggo, supposedly you are more susceptible to infection and my doc also said something about blood not clotting at the same rate as pre preggo. Not to mention the normal risks associated with tats/piercings. So no, I think it's totally unsafe. She should wait 'til the baby comes.

I want a new peircing but I have chosen to wait...But she just can't wait...That is sooo much more important than the potential risk that it could cause her and the risk of having to deliver early because she wanted it so bad....Lordy lordy. I have had to take out 4 of my peircings because of the locations and during pregnancy it's not comfy anymore. I miss most of them.

I wouldnt get it done while pregnant...Well actually I wouldnt get it done ever..Because I think nose rings look nasty ...Not to make anyone mad that has one...Buts thats my opinion...Most of the girls at my school that have them are skanks and do drugs...So I guess thats why I think they look bad..If I were her I would seriously not get it done...Plus she is going to be a mom ..I just dont find that to "motherly"..I guess you would say ..Although it is her body and her baby..So im not here to tell her what to do or anything..But when I got pregnant I took all the piercings out other than my belly button ring..Which isnt seen ..By anyone but me and my fiance..

Hey once blue m&m gets here my piercings (some of them) are going back in and i'm getting my new tat. I'm gonna be the hot mom.

Well I mean I have a tat..And a piercing ..But the "nose" ring ...To me is nasty...Just ruins a girls face ...Or thats what I see in it..I hate when I see girls with them..I just want to be like take that out ..You'd be much prettier without it...I love piercings and tats...But theres some that just ruin...A girls/guys looks

you dont have to have piercing and tats...To be a "hot mom"..Lol :wink:

I love my nose ring. Its a small tiny diamond and unless you really look for it you don't see it. I dont' like it when the girls have the hoops or the big studs in it....That is stupid.

I want a tat but I don't know if I can talk myself into it. I am trying very hard but can't. Ack. I hate the noise it makes. Buzzzzzzzzbuzzzzzzzbuzzzzzz I got the chills.

I just hope my nipple rings go back in. Doubt they will though...I can still fit them in, they are just really uncomfortable with my nippls hurting like they do and my breasts being engorged like they are. They feel really brused.

Anyway. I'll have to e-mail this thread to her.

My tat didnt even hurt..I thought it would and debated foreve over if I wanted it..And when I got it ..I was like oh my god this is a piece of cake...Lol barely even hurt and after a while the pain fades..But yeah little tiny nose rings I guess are alright..But like I said regardless the size I wouldnt get one..Just dont like the look of it all...Although I have always wanted my monroe done..I guess im just picky when it comes to piercings and tats...I had to think over and over about what I wanted when I got my tat..I thought I would never decide..But dont take offense about the nose ring..Its not like I hate people that have them I just would prefer not to have one on me.. :wink:

Monroe????

No offence here, I don't mind your advice. I am not a drugie though. (just thought I should add that.)

above your lip, where marilyn monroe had her beauty mark.

i think the ultimate bad is when a girl peirces the bridge of her nose, right between the eyes! Yyyyuk!

Duh....I knew that. I knew a girl that had that and boyfriend decided to beat the crap out of her and ripped it out. Looked like it hurt something awful

Crap that would hurt..Lol but I dont think my fiance would do that...Or else I hope not haha

Lol I am sure he wouldn't, I don't think that my husband would either, but right now like he is acting I really don't know sometimes.

Lol..Men are confusing huh!?

Yes they are. But the happiest time in our lives are turning into hell right now. But that is ok....Me and amelia will be fine with or without him.

The bridge is crazy I know. Ack

i know we are completely changing subjects here but whats going on with you and your husband? Just being curious you dont have to tell if you dont want to ..

Heck, it would be his lost, right .Sunflower_pie81, sometimes we all need our space, I just hope that you antd the baby will be o.K. And dom't forget to take him to the cleaners! It is o.K. To vent.
The best to you and yours!

I posted it on the grrrr thread,

he is just being a jerk, he wants the lifestyle that we lived before I got pregnant. I was really out going and loved to do everything but now I kinda really want to stay home and not go out as much. Well he has decided that he is going to go out without me and treats me like crap when I try to get him to understand where I am coming from.

Then he pulls the 'im stressed out' thing and brings up hunter (our baby that passed away) and says that he is trying to cope saying that this one is going to pass away too. He was great when I was pregnant with him and now with this one he's just being jerkish...He came home the other night and messed up our bedroom and then left and stayed at a friend's home and left me to clean it up. I am stressed out too and he is not helping to make this pregnancy any better for me.

I tried not to post about it but since I dont' want to tell my family/friends about it I finally posted it. :x grrrrrrr